There's the reality. Contrary to everything you're told in the popular media, Olympic sex and blinding passionate romance are not vital to human happiness. In fact, it is the striving after those mythical components that makes us the unhappiest, in many cases, living as we do in the real world and not some VC Andrews novel or a prime-time soap opera.
“Contrary to everything you’re told in the popular media, Olympic sex and blinding passionate romance are not vital to human happiness.”
So very true. Also true is that even heterosexual expression of sexual intercourse is reserved for marriage. So, even the heterosexual young person is expected to abstain from sex. It only can properly (according to God) be done in the bounds of (proper) heterosexual marriage.