Bullfeathers. You won't find a Catholic here who will defend a "totalizing" or "divinizing" approach to Mary. You won't find that in Catholic Biblical commentary or in the Catholic Catechism.
So you post bits of some over-the-top Mary devotees who take that approach. That doesn't mean this is Catholic doctrine or even typical Catholic practice.
I could just as well post stuff by Victoria Osteen and say, "Well, there's Protestantism for ya."
I have been linking to passages from the Catechism for years on this forum, and have seen almost zero evidence that anybody has ever gone to the links. It could be that people go and never allude to it again. But to me, it raises the suspicion that some people don't care what the Catholic Church really teaches.
They just want to sort through the fish they find in the Kingdom of Heaven's dragnet, seize some strange-looking specimen, and yell "Gotcha."
Consecration to Mary [a href=http://www.catholic.org/prayers/prayer.php?p=441> Catholic Online.]
My Queen and my Mother, I give myself entirely to you; and to show my devotion to you, I consecrate to you this day my eyes, my ears, my mouth, my heart, my whole being without reserve. Wherefore, good Mother, as I am your own, keep me, guard me, as your property and possession. Amen.
Using your definition we see catholics do indeed do what they claim not do.