Posted on 07/13/2015 7:29:51 PM PDT by markomalley
There have been a lot of suggestions going around that in the wake of the recent Supreme Court decision legalizing same sex marriage nationally, the Catholic Church in the US should announce that priests will no longer perform civil marriages.In order to be treated as married under the law in the United States, you need to file a witnessed marriage license in your state. The way it worked for us in California was: you go down to your city hall or other government building to pick the license up. The city clerk fills it out but then leaves the final signatures blank. You take the form with you and give it to the priest who is performing your marriage. After the ceremony, the priest signs the form, asserting that he has performed a marriage ceremony for you. Its then signed by husband, wife, and two witnesses and filed with the state. At that point, the man and woman are considered married in the eyes of the law. Obviously, its not just priests that can process a marriage license for the state. Any kind of religious minister (Christian or non) can, as can non denominational ministers of their own religion. You can also have a strictly civil ceremony performed by a city official.
The theory among some Catholic circles seems to be that since the priest is performing a civil marriage by signing the marriage license, and since same sex couples can now get civilly married, if priests continue to sign marriage licenses they will set themselves up to be forced to perform same sex marriages.Being penalized for not performing same sex marriages is not the first thing that Catholic organizations need to worry about in the wake of the Supreme Court ruling. The first step will be an uptick in suits against Catholic organizations demanding equal treatment of civilly married same sex couples. Weve already seen this go down with Catholic-run adoption organizations being shut down in places like Massachusetts and Illinois for not placing children with same sex couples. That will increase. A lot. Expect Catholic organizations to be forced pretty quickly to provide spousal benefits to same sex partners, and expect a lot of Catholic charities that get government funds to help with their work to lose their funding in retaliation for not recognizing same sex marriage.
But I do think that there will come a point, though perhaps not for ten years or so, when penalties start to be imposed on churches that do not endorse same sex marriage. And I dont think that refusing to sign civil marriage certificates will help one bit.
Heres how I think it will go down: The test case will come at St. Wishy-Washy parish, in a state which has a ban on discrimination based on sexual orientation. Theres that nice, older, same sex couple that everyone basically knows about, but no one ever says anything rude about except that nasty rules-obsessed fellow who objects when Father amends the creed to make it more gender inclusive. Pat is a Eucharistic minister. Sam leads the choir at the 5:30 mass and leads the inquiry sessions at RCIA. Theyre always there to help out in every big parish activity and everyone likes them. One day, they file paperwork for marriage prep and ask to reserve the church for their wedding and the hall for the reception. Maybe that new secretary accidentally books it and takes a deposit check before realizing. Maybe its just believable at first that Fr. Trendy would celebrate the ceremony on his own authority. But of course, its not worth the poor mans retirement to have the bishop find out about this one. He tell them he cant do it and he returns Pat and Sams check to them.
Thats when the lawsuit gets filed. Nothing against Fr. Trendy, of course. They know that he probably would agree with them if he was free to speak his mind. But Christs message of love will be held captive by the institutional hierarchy until theyre attacked the only place they understand: their wallets.
The argument: The church is a public accommodation providing marriage services to its members. There are few members of the parish more active than Pat and Sam. Neither has been married before. The only thing preventing St. Wishy Washy from performing the same service for Pat and Sam which it provides for any other couple that shows up wanting the same ceremony and the same reception in the hall is homophobic prejudice. Their lawyer cites scholarly books claiming that same sex marriages were celebrated in the early church, and brings up the cases of Catholic priests who celebrated weddings for same sex couples more recently. Sure, some of these letter were punished by bigoted bishops, but others were not. It is clearly the case that the Catholics can celebrate same sex marriages, they just choose not to because of bigotry.
The court professes itself unable to say what the nature of a sacrament is, and whether or not what the Church says it does when it marries a couple occurs when the same words are said over a same sex couple, but it is clear to the court that the parish is in the business of providing a certain ceremony to couples in the parish who get married, and that they are only refusing to do this for Pat and Sam because of prejudice. The court thus sides with Pat and Sam and imposes heavy financial damages.
A wave of copy-cat cases follow, and the church is slowly bled of resources. Some cases win, some lose, but in all too many cases the parishes have made clear that they have no real issue with people living in same sex relationships, and thus arguments that their stand is based on conviction fall flat. It is clear that the we dont marry same sex couples rule is being imposed based on nothing but dusty bigotry.
Theres a group out there which is very, very determined to win cultural and moral legitimacy for homosexual relationships, and to punish those who do not share those beliefs. Currently that group is at the cultural helm. In time, it will crumble and lose its ascendancy simply because it is not compatible with the realities of human nature. However, until that happens, the marriage equality group will not be satisfied by seeing Catholic priests stop signing civil marriage licenses, while continuing to celebrate religious marriage ceremonies only for opposite sex couples. Theyre not stupid, and its recognition they want, not getting priests to stop signing a form for straight couples. Nor would separating civil and religious marriage be coherent from a Catholic point of view. Indeed, a non-Catholic couple who get married in front of a city clerk are (absent obstacles such as already being married to someone else or being of the same sex) viewed by the Church as being married, since the Church does not recognize there as being two levels of marriage. So the idea of getting out of the civil marriage business fails to protect us from the looming threat, while at the same time abandoning our Catholic principles as to the nature of marriage. There is no reason to do it.
I think you are correct, sadly. So we just have to be “wise as serpents” here and protect the Church.
I like your ideas but the statists will fight back. They will try and destroy any church that does not worship Baal - they see the First Amendment as a minor inconvenience to be worked around. More specifically, they will get back at Christian couples who do not have a state marriage license. I can see the statists making it easy for a gay “married” couple to adopt children but almost impossible for a Christian couple to adopt. I am imagining that the statists will find ways to discriminate against the children of Christian couples - maybe limiting educational opportunities somehow. Imagine a “progressive” America where the First Amendment is so narrowly interpreted as to be useless and laws against discrimination are turned into pretzels - treating everyone equally under the law is an offense to the greater “equality” of discriminating in favor of certain groups. All of this is likely.
But it would be great to see some people have an empty victory with their pretend marriages and fake families, while real Christian families thrive. That will anger the left and they will try and attack dissenters with all sorts of tricks so we have to be ready.
There will probably soon be an executive order that the FDA must have proof the wine turns to blood, and if it does, it must be checked for Hep C before usage...this means lots of new warning labels. (And we sneer...but look at what has already happened...I put nothing past these people). What we are going to need are some brave Christian Soldiers ... marching as to war...with the cross of Jesus going on before.
Let’s say we elect a conservative for 8 years, followed by another lib.
10 years from now, will there be enough people who care, who are ABLE to fight?
A marriage that is performed in church but has no civil component is called a "clandestine marriage". Canon law allows in some narrow circumstances (e.g., the state proscribes criminally some marriages which the Church allows -- imagine, for example, two Catholics, one of whom is of Jewish ancestry, seeking to marry in Nazi Germany), but not just to make a point.
Separating the civil wedding from the church wedding would not require a change in the law, but I am unaware of any place where that is done to prove a point or make a statement. In those countries where that's the practice, it's done that way because the state requires it.
At the risk of hijacking the thread, I wanted to make a point. Too many stories describe the supreme court’s decision as “legalizing same-sex marriage.” I don’t think that’s what it did; no one was arguing that no state could “marry” two men or two women. The argument was whether the traditional concept of marriage, and the policies that supported it (including the recognition, encouragement and support of the union of a child’s biological parents), were incompatible with the US Constitution. The supreme court basically found the institution of state-recognized marriage of a man and a woman to be unconstitutional. To me, it sounds ridiculous on its face. But these are the times we live in.
>>Ive been thinking of Lot.
{Sniff} Is that smoke?
“Seceding from Sodom”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPs5z2knyPI
“As surely as Water will wet us, and as surely as Fire will burn...”
—Kipling
>> So we just have to be wise as serpents here and protect the Church.
Natural Selection created Sex, the genetic exchange between Male and Female, because it increased fitness of species.
What homosexuals have selected for worship isn’t Sex, but mutual masturbation.
No Church exposure required.
I sometimes wish there were some truth seekers with enough resources to infiltrate and record homosexual organizations over a long period of time, O’Keefe-style. I was thinking specifically about Dallas’ Turtle Creek Chorale, which is portrayed as a wholesome, family-oriented organization, when every member has probably “done” every other member. AIDS is absolutely RIFE in that group, they even admit it at every Christmas concert, where deceased members outnumber the living ones (the stage is covered by a poinsettia for every former member who died of the disease.)
I’m absolutely certain that they would uncover a substantial amount of pedophilia as well.
What President Hillary Clinton. She will never be President.
I see churches quiting their tax-exempt status down the road.
Correction:
What President Hillary Clinton? Never will happen.
Or rather, have a seperate culture.
I’d hang on, tight. Hire good lawyers because it is nothing short of the nation’s religious liberty that is at stake in legal precedents. Just rolling over on tax exemptions is going to put them in a far weaker position because not only will they be paying taxes, nobody who contributes to them will get the write off on taxes, which means many of those contributions will go to other places.
If we cannot defend ourselves in America then shame on us!
He saved an important point for the very last paragraph. Namely: There is no such thing as “civil marriage”—i.e., there are not two kinds of marriage, “civil marriage” and “sacramental marriage.” There is only marriage. When two baptized people marry, their marriage is a sacrament, but there is no SECOND THING or second kind of marriage, there is just marriage.
The term “civil marriage” has gained currency among Catholics, to describe what happens when Catholics run off and get “married” before a Justice of the Peace. People say that they “got married civilly,” when in fact they didn’t get married at all.
I agree that it will play out this way, but in a year, not ten years.
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