There are none so blind as those who refuse to see.
Mary is dead. She cannot hear you. She cannot see you. She cannot do anything for you. Her time on Earth is over. Were she able to hear and respond to you she would shout: "Talk to my Son!".
How to you explain Moses and Elijah at the Tranfiguration with Peter watching as Christ conversed with Moses who died? Peter saw it then it was eventually written down for all to read . So Moses was dead as he was talking to Jesus? Huh! All who are dead can’t hear? Hello?
Now look closely at Mark 12:26-27:
But concerning the dead, that they rise, have you not read in the book of Moses, in the burning bush passage, how God spoke to him, saying, I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob? He is not the God of the dead, but the God of the living. You are therefore greatly mistaken.