No, actually, it's a balance a Catholic should want to achieve with every person, inside or outside the household of the Faith, with whom he has a serious dispute.
But this balance must apply especially our chief pastors, whom Divine Providence has willed or permitted to occupy the places of authority in His Holy Church.
BTW I think St. Catherine of Siena is another key example of the right way to conduct matters of conflict with the Pope.
Now you're sounding like one of those ecumaniacs who wants to dialogue with ISIS, pro-abort politicicians (and bishops), the gay lobby, etc.
How much silly "dialogue" do you think Pope St. Pius V engaged in with Ali Pasha?
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