No, we are not suppose to judge, but if your committing a sin, it should be called out, and this is a sin...being gay is not something your are born with, God doesn’t make mistakes, and this gay crap is just that, crap....
While Christ saved us from our sins on the cross as a complete atonement, as we all know, homosexuality is a mortal sin of abomination to the Father and should never be tolerated by Christians.
Two things:
1. How do you know Gods plans?
2. How do you explain androgyny? If it wasn't a mistake, did God intend that person to have the sex organs of a man and a woman? And if an androgynous person isn't a mistake, how can you be certain God did not create a homosexual?
There are lots of 'defective' humans. All created by God.
Hate the sin, love the sinner.
I implore you to carefully look at the written word. We are absolutely 100% called to "judge." Sound doctrine is key to living the life of a Christ follower. Christ said I came not to "destroy the law but to FULFILL the law." This fulfilling of the law is providing people with the correct interpretation of the scriptures. It is in fact a Hebraism. This is what the Rabbis would use when someone was misinterpreting the scriptures - they would say "you are destroying the law." If a pedophile comes in to your church/synagogue can a person really tell me that we cannot "judge" the person?? We are just supposed to let the wolf in and have him destroy the flock. The pro-sodomy's MAJOR accomplishment has been to keep Christians from "judging." This allows them free reign to spread their poison in the church. JUDGE righteously - that is the calling of ALL followers of Christ! When someone comes in with a doctrine of devils we are to immediately capture it and take it in to captivity. Don't allow the false doctrines in to the church. Christ is all about reconciling sinful man to Himself. The approach to those who are caught in sin should always be in the love of the Living God.