Civil marriage as now constituted is actually a gay institution. I don’t see how anybody normal would want to have anything to do with it.
Whygive up trying to get it back? The other side doesnt just roll up anddie when stuff doesnt go their way. they double down. look how tht has served them the last fifty years being in their fights for the long haul. you have to really believe in what youre doing. make it a life mission.
whatever yor pet cause, or the thing you believe is the most important thing to fight for. it wont be the same for everyone. support other stuff and what others do, but focus on one thing as a mission and put your personal energies behind changing the stuff you just cannot abide being destroyed by the liberal socialists.