When we die, our body is dead. But our soul is still alive and experiences the particular (individual) judgment by Christ.
Mary is very much alive in heaven and passes our prayers on to her son.
Have you forgotten her last words in the Bible?
“Do whatever he tells you.”
The soul of Mary passes prayers to God? Really? Islam is more believable.
Her words to the servants at a wedding apply to you and me just how?
And her words are so important just why?
*Do whatever HE tells you?*
Try these verses on for size then.
Matthew 6:7-15 "And when you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard for their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him. Pray then like this:
"Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name."
Matthew 23: 8-10 But you are not to be called rabbi, for you have one teacher, and you are all brothers. And call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven. Neither be called instructors, for you have one instructor, the Christ.
That's a good place to start. Easy, basic, clear cut......