best wishes to you. I’m in SD. Divorced and re-married, but not feeling like re-joining.
I know a lot of people who did likewise.
Mainly after hearing people who had gone through an annulment talk about what an utterly humiliating experience it was.
I had a co-worker, a young woman about age 30. She was literally shaking the day after her annulment hearing. A bunch of leering old priests asking her invasive questions about her sex life for a couple of hours.
It’s a wonder why anyone goes through it.
People like you leave and start tithing to other churches, which is what REALLY has the Vatican’s knickers in a twist over this.