>>You are either in Christ, saved, or not in Christ, lost. You are either in the Light, saved, or you remain in darkness, lost. You are either ALIVE to Him, saved, or dead in your sins, lost.<<
No one disputes that. What is disputed is that the entire Body of Christ will be raptured. The five foolish virgins failed to maintain vigilance in their expectation of the Groom.
Matthew 24:
Suppose that servant is wicked and says to himself, My master is staying away a long time, and he then begins to beat his fellow servants and to eat and drink with drunkards. The master of that servant will come on a day when he does not expect him and at an hour he is not aware of . . . He (LJC) will cut him to pieces and assign him a place with the hypocrites, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. (either the Tribulation or Hell).