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It is a very tragic situation, as is always the case in divorce. I would think he should be able to keep his TV and radio broadcasts at least. But I'm not sure about Pastoral duties and direct counseling, it just doesn't seem right to me.

I think it depends on the situation. A habitual divorcer who learns nothing is not fit to counsel. But divorced people often have an insight that non-divorced don't. They understand failure in a way that non-divorced don't and if the Holy Spirit has been working in them they can point others to the One who can help them overcome failure and live in victory better than those who have never been there. As I said above, the "husband of one wife" passage is very problematic. It may not mean divorce at all. We tend to give it that meaning and then ignore the other injunctions for leadership in the rest of the passage. Deacons with disobedient children shouldn't deacon, for example. We don't harp on that much. Husband of one wife also means that widowers and singles can't pastor, if you take that to be the absolute standard. And if it is the absolute standard and a person who divorces and remarries has two wives, then the divorced person who doesn't remarry is still the husband of one wife though legally the marriage is severed.