I believe there are some natural things a church can and should do AS MINISTRY like literacy classes..food banks...your ESL ...
There are things a church should do as family ..celebrate and morn.....BUT God knows the purpose . Is it to attract numbers or is it to wash feet?
I fought with my pastor about the saddle back program....it is very carnal.
The Baptist church in the same neighborhood started an awana program and has run a Thursday program during the summer to minister to the kids....the church will grow because of them....but God knows the intention was it to minister or to grow?
I did prison ministry for years...it was intended to bring the gospel ..not to grow a church...
Am I making what I think on this clear? We minister in HIS name because it is what we are to do..not to grow a church. The the compassion and love is a self serving lie if the real purpose is only church growth IMHO