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1 posted on 09/21/2017 9:16:10 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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When you boil it down, it’s like a stiff reality that results in the desired outcome.

Quite simple.


41 posted on 09/21/2017 11:09:26 PM PDT by soycd
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[[Why So Many Women Cheat on Their Husbands]]

Because they are horny, lust driven, sluts- period- same reason men cheat on their wives


42 posted on 09/21/2017 11:24:11 PM PDT by Bob434
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What a bullshit feminist screed

Who wrote this crap

Let me guess

Not married

Urban

Careerist

Not Christian raised

I’m guessing secular “other”

Tell me I’m wrong

Yep....looked her up

This is a kernel of hers

“Better sex if division of labor in a marriage is equal”

Then get her ass out there behind the plow honey...

She’s a sexually frustrated witch who lacks a good parade of phallic lain orgasms

Any writer male or female who thinks the wife getting some strange is somehow conducive to a good lasting marriage is a moonbat and ignorant of marriage herself

Worst image a man can have short of the violent death of a child God forbid is that of little Wifey in a hotel room far from home with her dainty ankles pinned back and wings wide open while some other hard leg is pouring the coal to it and she’s moaning and back clawing and chest biting while he goes places no man has gone before and she peels off wave after wave of major O

That my friends is exactly the fear a man has if he thinks she’s running afoul of her fidelity

It can kill a man....

It sure as hell ain’t good for a marriage....it’s the worst thing for a marriage except for pervs and freaks

It’s visceral for men...your mind will run away from ya...make you do bad things and go to the penitentiary

Nope..it isn’t good

Tell me I’m lying men.

I don’t know if it’s the same imagery for wives on cheating husbands but it sure devastates them too

This is all why your truly has always refrained from opportunities even at times when I may have felt justified

I will never allow myself to be the victim of a woman who’s left me again though and I never did...not since 1980

It’s too painful to sit and suffer

Go and find another one....it’s the proper antibiotic for cheating heartbrokenness

Anybody remember Jill Clayburgh in that movie when her jerk hubby gets caught.....Unmarried Woman....she vomits on the street in Manhattan

Well hell yes she does....it’s gut wrenching


43 posted on 09/21/2017 11:49:51 PM PDT by wardaddy (Virtue signalers should be shot on sight...conservative ones racked and hanged then fed to dogs)
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I’d guess that more honest reporting (less social stigma or shame) accounts for a good bit.

For quite a while there was a wide discrepancy believed to exist on how calories affected men and women, until it was realized that women much more widely under-reported how much they ate. As much as men may have been stereotyped as being more widely unfaithful in the past, they were overwhelmingly doing so with women, who apparently didn’t count in the stats somehow (not homosexually).

But other factors could include that it is just easier nowadays with tinder and a general hookup/one night stand “dating” culture. A decline in religious observance and moral education has its effect as well.

Also, with more women working and making more money, they have more means to support outside activities, have more interactions/opportunities, and face less severe financial consequences if the marriage collapses from their infidelity.


44 posted on 09/21/2017 11:50:27 PM PDT by BeauBo
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Why So Many Women Cheat on Their Husbands?

Because they are horny?

No, too obvious.


45 posted on 09/21/2017 11:52:23 PM PDT by BeauBo
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Once again, all the post-ers above nailed it. Thank you, FR

My 2 cents:
For nearly all of these women, if the men “fixed” the relationship in one direction, the women would find them lacking in another, such as “too horny” or “not helping with the kids/housework/earning/social-life enough.” The men can do nothing - they’re powerless - and that’s exactly what is driving these women - thanks to feminism, the cheap grace of modern “Christianity”, and a certain fallen angel whispering in their ears.

“they found married life incredibly dull and constraining” - if nothing changes in them, the next life will not be so pleasurable for them either.


46 posted on 09/22/2017 2:32:14 AM PDT by ReaganGeneration2
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Also, don’t forget that for every cheating woman, a cheating man exists. That man, married or unmarried, is this scourge too.


48 posted on 09/22/2017 2:47:52 AM PDT by ReaganGeneration2
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In an earlier generation, this might have taken the form of separation or divorce, but now, it seemed, more and more women were unwilling to abandon the marriages and families they’d built over years or decades. They were also unwilling to bear the stigma of a publicly open marriage or to go through the effort of negotiating such a complex arrangement. These women were turning to infidelity not as a way to explode a marriage, but as a way to stay in it.

Lies and fraud. They're the recipient of stolen goods.

49 posted on 09/22/2017 3:02:14 AM PDT by gogeo (Trump appears to be working 18 hours per day while congress canÂ’t seem to get in 18 hours per week.)
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What the writers of the book and article fail to focus on: extramarital affairs are first and foremost about LYING. These affairs are not about sex, not about unmet needs, not about romance-—they are about LYING plain and simple. These women who cheat on their husbands are liars and deceivers, shame shame shame on them.

These narcissistic women may be getting away with their double lives for now, but eventually their false lives will catch up with them. When that happens, entire networks of family and friends will be hurt and/or destroyed. It’s not just the husband and the children who suffer because of a faithless selfish wife.


56 posted on 09/22/2017 3:54:07 AM PDT by RooRoobird20 ("Democrats haven't been this angry since Republicans freed the slaves.")
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They want to have their cake and to eat it too—like so many men.


59 posted on 09/22/2017 3:58:36 AM PDT by 9YearLurker
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Who are all these women cheating with? Unmarried or unattached men?

Not sure it makes sense to say rate of cheating among women has increased but rate among men hasn’t.


64 posted on 09/22/2017 4:29:47 AM PDT by independentmind (Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me.)
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"someone who could satisfy them completely..."

Keep searching for unicorns.

67 posted on 09/22/2017 4:33:21 AM PDT by glorgau
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“And why have so many women begun to feel entitled to the kind of behavior long accepted (albeit disapprovingly) as a male prerogative?”

So cheating is a male prerogative ? I guess it’s now totally safe to say that “Black people rob convenience stores”

/sarc


70 posted on 09/22/2017 4:39:02 AM PDT by Celerity
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Why do women cheat? Because they can.

Because she will not experience censure and shunning from her friends, who will blame the husband for being inadequate to her needs, and thus justify her cheating.


76 posted on 09/22/2017 4:47:42 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (Big governent is attractive to those who think that THEY will be in control of it.)
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“Rethinking”
What do you mean by “Rethinking” bitch? Do you mean I’m supposed to change my way of thinking about it? Don’t try to change minds, bitch.


79 posted on 09/22/2017 4:50:44 AM PDT by I want the USA back (Constantly doing things in opposition to human nature is insanity.)
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Women are attention seekers. They can’t live without someone giving them attention. There is so much porn on the Internet not because there is so much demand but because there is so many girls looking for attention.

If you want a girl to take off her clothes you only need to have a camera.


83 posted on 09/22/2017 5:21:29 AM PDT by CodeToad (Victorious warriors WIN first, then go to war! Go TRUMP!!!)
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Cheaters going to Cheat.


84 posted on 09/22/2017 5:27:08 AM PDT by Big Red Badger (UNSCANABLE in an IDIOCRACY!)
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I’ll take “Self-Serving Rationalizations” for $800, Alex.


93 posted on 09/22/2017 6:47:32 AM PDT by Interesting Times (WinterSoldier.com. SwiftVets.com. ToSetTheRecordStraight.com.)
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Women cheat on their husbands for three reasons:

1. Passive aggressive behavior toward the husband;

2. Hot pants; and

3. Cognitive dissonance. (They feel like a slut so they have to act it out to overcome the discomfort from the dissonance.


94 posted on 09/22/2017 6:52:02 AM PDT by anton
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From a guy who had been divorced five times told me

" They are all crazy, can't trust em."

95 posted on 09/22/2017 6:58:09 AM PDT by jetson
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