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A Right-To-Die Fairy Tale
CatholicExchange.com ^ | 06-06-05 | Barbara A. Olevitch, Ph.D

Posted on 06/06/2005 9:39:44 AM PDT by Salvation

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To: trisham

Let me clalrify here.

My husband died at home under the care of Hospice. I can see the good that they did, but it took the Terri Schiavo incident to force me to look at the other side of the situation.

I had considered it all my husband's choice of how to live and die.

I can now see the bad side of what Hospice did.

(It's OK, though, don't worry.) I'm not carrying a bag of guilt around over it, because initially I did not want my husband to cease his treatments. It was, however, his decision to make.


21 posted on 06/06/2005 2:41:39 PM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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Some excellent thoughts on suffering in this homily for today.

 
 
 

Monday June 6, 2005   Tenth Week in Ordinary Time

 Reading (2 Corinthians 1:1-7)   Gospel (St. Matthew 5:1-12)

 When we read the Beatitudes today in the Gospel, the very things that Our Lord tells us are the things that will make us happy. That is what the word Beatitude means: “blessed” or “happy.” And the things that are supposed to make us happy are the very things that society suggests should not make us happy. Blessed are the poor in spirit, blessed are those who mourn, blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, and so on. Then He comes down to the point of the persecutions and the sufferings and the afflictions and all the problems and difficulties, and He tells us that these are the things we should rejoice in. It is exactly what we hear in the first reading. Saint Paul says, Blessed be God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, and then goes on to talk about all the sufferings, all the difficulties and afflictions that they are experiencing, and he is able to say, We experience the overflow of the afflictions of Christ and therefore we are encouraged. 

Now most of us get discouraged when we have to share in the suffering of Christ. But here Saint Paul is saying: We are encouraged and God Himself is the one who encourages us. Therefore, we are able to encourage you with the same encouragement with which God encourages us, because we know that as you share in the sufferings so you will also share in the encouragement. That, again, is not what we would naturally assume. But here it is, the very first thing that Saint Paul is talking about in this letter. This is from the beginning of the Second Letter to the Corinthians. This is how he begins; it is not just some side point. It is what Saint Paul wants the Corinthians to know. And the point he is trying to make to them is that if they are willing to share in Christ’s suffering they will share in the encouragement. 

But isn’t that exactly what Our Lord tells us anyway? that our reward in heaven will be great if we are persecuted, if we suffer, if these things happen to us for righteous reasons? Obviously, if we are out doing stupid things and we cause ourselves to suffer, well, we deserved it. But if we are being persecuted or if we are suffering and sharing in the suffering of Christ for the very things that are right and proper, this is something that God considers to be blessed. And He tells us that in the midst of it all we will have His encouragement. More than that, when it is all finished, then ours is the reward that has been promised – and the reward is nothing less than heaven. That is what the Lord is telling us. 

So in this society which shuns suffering at all costs, which runs as fast as it can from anything that seems unpleasant, the Gospel tells us exactly the opposite. Saint Paul tells us the opposite. Every one of the saints who has ever lived tells us exactly the opposite. And so we really need to ask ourselves, “Now which one is right?” Not, “Which one are we attracted to?” because that is pretty evident, but, “Which one is right?” We have the Word of God making it explicit, and not just in these two readings either. Basically, every book of the New Testament will tell you the same thing. If every saint in the history of the Church tells us the same thing and Jesus Himself teaches this to us, it should be pretty evident which one is right and which one is wrong. 

Obviously, this society which does not know Christ, this society which hates the truth, this society which will do everything it can to bury the Cross is telling us that we should not have to suffer, is telling us to run the other way. Society is wrong on most every point. If that is the case, why are we so intent on listening to it? Why are we so intent on shunning the Word of God to listen to the word of Satan? It does not make sense, except that the word that Satan is preaching to us sounds more pleasant than the Word of God. 

The Word of God is hard. Saint Paul tells us that it cuts like a two-edged sword and it is going to separate everything. And so it does. We have that choice once again of which voice we are going to listen to, which path we are going to walk. If we are going to listen to the voice of Christ, we are going to walk the path of Calvary. It is narrow and it is rough and it leads to eternal life in heaven. If we want to walk according to the path society lays out for us, then it is smooth, it is wide, it is easy, and it also leads to eternity – but not with God. There is only one reasonable choice: to share in the suffering of Christ so as to share in the encouragement. 

*  This text was transcribed from the audio recording with minimal editing.


22 posted on 06/06/2005 2:49:30 PM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Salvation
My husband died at home under the care of Hospice. I can see the good that they did, but it took the Terri Schiavo incident to force me to look at the other side of the situation.

I had considered it all my husband's choice of how to live and die.

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I am quite sure that there are many cases where the involvement of hospice is positive, and a welcome relief to patient and family.

Pope John Paul II was an inspiration to me. He taught us all that it is how we live and die that matters. That the end of his life was taking place as was Terri Schiavo's could not have made his example more clear.

This is such a difficult issue. I have much sympathy for those who must make hard choices. I pray that I never will.

23 posted on 06/06/2005 3:00:37 PM PDT by trisham ("Live Free or Die," General John Stark, July 31, 1809)
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To: Salvation

I miss Terri.


24 posted on 06/06/2005 3:02:02 PM PDT by Saundra Duffy (Terri Schindler was murdered - IMPEACH JUDGE GREER!!!)
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To: Salvation
The Word of God is hard.

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Understatement of the century. :)

25 posted on 06/06/2005 3:04:32 PM PDT by trisham ("Live Free or Die," General John Stark, July 31, 1809)
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To: trisham

We must keep in mind that hospice care can be a blessing for those in pain from terminal cancer, along with their families. Many times these patients are unable to eat or drink but we still need to provide nourishment. In the end, it is usually the disease that takes them.


26 posted on 06/06/2005 4:28:50 PM PDT by Angelas
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To: Angelas
We must keep in mind that hospice care can be a blessing for those in pain from terminal cancer, along with their families. Many times these patients are unable to eat or drink but we still need to provide nourishment. In the end, it is usually the disease that takes them.

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I agree.

27 posted on 06/06/2005 4:31:04 PM PDT by trisham ("Live Free or Die," General John Stark, July 31, 1809)
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To: trisham; Lesforlife

There are good and bad hospices. The one in Pinellas County is in cahootz with the judges and the politicians and they are worldwide, a global death mill if you will. Terri's hospice is known for not wanting to surrender seniors to their blood relatives. Relatives have to insist and then they get their loved one outta there.


28 posted on 06/06/2005 5:56:59 PM PDT by floriduh voter (www.terrisfight.org & www.theemppirejournal.com... The Schindlers "Never again.")
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To: Angelas

Thanks for your post.


29 posted on 06/06/2005 7:58:57 PM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: floriduh voter

Good to know, thanks.

And thank you for the fight you coordinated down there.


30 posted on 06/06/2005 7:59:58 PM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Salvation

BTTT


31 posted on 06/06/2005 9:03:01 PM PDT by murphE (These are days when the Christian is expected to praise every creed but his own. --G.K. Chesterton)
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To: MHGinTN; Coleus; nickcarraway; narses; Mr. Silverback; Canticle_of_Deborah; ...
Pro-Life PING

Please FreepMail me if you want on or off my Pro-Life Ping List.

32 posted on 06/06/2005 11:24:47 PM PDT by cpforlife.org (Abortion is the Choice of Satan, the father of lies and a MURDERER from the beginning.)
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To: Salvation

Ping for now.


33 posted on 06/07/2005 3:37:58 AM PDT by Bellflower (A new day is Coming!)
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To: Nightshift

ping


34 posted on 06/07/2005 4:27:26 AM PDT by tutstar ( <{{--->< Impeach Judge Greer http://www.petitiononline.com/ijg520/petition.html)
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To: Future Useless Eater; floriduh voter; amdgmary; pc93


35 posted on 06/07/2005 4:28:04 AM PDT by tutstar ( <{{--->< Impeach Judge Greer http://www.petitiononline.com/ijg520/petition.html)
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To: cpforlife.org

Thanks for all your pings!


36 posted on 06/07/2005 4:28:37 AM PDT by tutstar ( <{{--->< Impeach Judge Greer http://www.petitiononline.com/ijg520/petition.html)
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To: Salvation
"The hospice staff has to work on two fronts to gain the cooperation of both the patient and his family, on the one hand, and the physician, on the other.** "

I have had two experiences with hospice. One was with my father in a regular hospital setting and the other was with my dearest friend, who had hospice in his home the last two weeks of his life.

In neither case, did hospice attempt to coerce or "gain cooperation." Both my father and my friend knew they were dying and requested hospice. In the case of my friend, he and I retained all control and we had the right to reject hospice at any time. I did not sign the DNR until after my friend died in his sleep. I retained all control over food, liquids and medications. The hospice nurse and our little CNA remained in the background to offer their help if I needed it. They were a phone call away. When my friend died and I made the call to hospice to ask our assigned nurse to come, she was in shock that he had died. She knew he was a fighter and she would have been supportive had we decided to try another course of chemo and radiation.

So I would suggest that there is a fine line between those wonderful hospice volunteers who simply want to help the patient and his or her family and those who impose questionable practices on us.

37 posted on 06/07/2005 8:05:22 AM PDT by sageb1
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