Posted on 05/03/2024 9:50:50 PM PDT by SeekAndFind
What man in his right mind would marry a woman with a chip on her shoulder who was indoctrinated to believe men are the enemy? She will never be happy and in a year or two she will find an excuse to get a divorce and take half of everything he owns. It’s crazy.
Maybe women are unhappy because they’re belittled, berated, and browbeaten by these “Christian males” in their lives. That “Christian” man is not “God’s Best”.
I disagree that the situation is symmetric. And that believed symmetry is why women don’t change.
If a Christian male announced in the foyer of the church at coffee-hour “I just don’t think my Christian sisters are good enough for me to marry.” He would be inundated with reproof. He would be piled on by everyone around and beaten down until he had been made an example of. The pastor would tell him he had to go to mandatory counseling with the pastor if this young man “still thought this was the right fit for fellowship here”. They’d ask him if he was a Trump supporter and if he thought Trumps remarks about women were appropriate.
By contrast, if a Christian woman said “I just don’t think my Christian brothers are good enough for me to marry”, at church coffee fellowship, which is what all her Christian sisters are thinking, a crowd of affirmation and support and “you go girl!” and “tell it like it is!” would surround her. She’d be made a celebrity of. She’d get her own youtube channel. She’d be on Fox News. The pastor would help her start a women’s BIble study on the topic. The pastor would preach a sermon on video-game-and-porn-watching males and have her come up to the podium and read a short poem calling for men to change.
My other point is that *I* amd *not* the problem, but get treated like it. I am *not* living in my Mom’s basement. I haven’t played a video game since I was a teen. I finished the serious undergrad and grad degrees. But the Christian females dismiss my type of guy as well.
Yes, Pay for Play, prostitution full shake-down of men.
The Grk. original of prostitution comes from pornography.
No..I will not “google it”...or use any other search...
You are missing one factor. Men will date “down.” Women won’t. So a high-value man who has no real interest in a woman will still date her (especially if he thinks he can bed her), but generally won’t commit. But, to a woman, once she’s dated/slept with a ten, she’ll never accept anything less. She deserves a ten (because she’s been with one, once), and she won’t “waste time” with any guy who isn’t, even if she’s far lower in terms of male desirability. Men generally aren’t like that. We’ve all got stories of dating out of our league, and then recognizing that the relationship would never have worked because of it. But every woman’s a princess...
So what you get is a small proportion of high status men jumping from woman to woman, and women who have a highly unrealistic expectation of who they match with based on their one night stands. Down that road lies lots of cats and boxed wine.
One much overlooked consequence of this is the societal turmoil that comes from large numbers of “average” men who can find a mate. Look at all of the highly aggressive societies (most of which have terrible records when it comes to women’s rights) that have this basic problem. Why is Islam so attractive to Arabs, et al.? Well, if your leaders have harems, the idea of capturing your women...
Eve’s brain. He tried, failed, and she fell.
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That's why it feels like we are living under the Weimar Republic.
The Austrian Painter is in an art studio somewhere 🎨.
Bkmrk
“One much overlooked consequence of this is the societal turmoil that comes from large numbers of “average” men who can find a mate
* Perhaps the greatest societal consequence of this is, of the final Christian Chads, who have to filter through the myriads of shakedowns, before finally finding his/their “Melania”, if at all, shake-down after shake-down.
None of my four male friends are looking for western wives, all are wealthy, and 40 - 48 years old. They are looking for traditional women in South and central American. None are going to come back to the USA.
Our culture is degraded. Those of us who teach our children the right way are fighting that degraded culture. Before it degraded the culture assisted us.
It is a good article and deals with a great societal chasm that has transpired over decades. In addition, these modern day brainwashed women become voting slaves to the dimmocrap party.
“But, to a woman, once she’s dated/slept with a ten, she’ll never accept anything less. She deserves a ten (because she’s been with one, once), “
Worse, she may never pair bond again.
Even worse, is the possibility of DNA contamination.
hopefully evengalical christian karen reads these posts. Her job, if she decides to reform, is to go study why/how foreign women are feminine.
Speaking with 2 of my friends, they said that the three things more traditional women bring to the table was 1. Peaceful nature. 2. Always respect their husbands, especially in public and 3. They don’t use sex as a weapon to manipulate husbands.
I think those three things are taught as absolute requirements to daughters by parents, telling them that if they do these things they have the chance at home-peace. But look at these three in light of modern-american even ‘Christian’ women. Is any Anglo female ever taught these things as even “hey this would be a good idea if you...” ?
In feminist-university, all three of these things are taught the opposite way. The ‘you go girl’ mentality teaches that women are praised if they are militant, and this is equated with being ‘independent’. How many anglo women do you know say things like “I desire to have a peaceful nature” or “I desire that any man I date know I have a peaceful nature”?
Near zero? But how many Asian women would say that? Nearly 100%. How many anglo-women would say to their girlfriend in private “I try to always respect him, especially in public!”
Near zero. Absolute zero. But again, how many Chinese or Japanese or Korean women would say that to her girlfriend? Near 100%.
Everything that you said is true and why my two friends are looking for more traditional wives outside western culture. One is divorced and the other never married, both are planning on retiring early since they sold
their business and have been putting away money for twenty years. They said that in Columbia and Costa Rica you can live like a king (with a wife and two kids) on $3000 to $4000 a month.
I really like what you said and agree especially “How many anglo women do you know say things like “I desire to have a peaceful nature” or “I desire that any man I date know I have a peaceful nature”?
Near zero? But how many Asian women would say that? Nearly 100%.”
You are so right, western women don’t have a peaceful nature, don’t value/respect a man, beyond what his wallet can buy, and could care less about a man’s bedroom needs.
I have been told that Asian counties like Thailand, Philippines, Cambodia and Vietnam also have more traditional women, like older US expats (twenty years age difference) and you can live well on $2000 to $4000 a month.
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