Behar is the classic disappointed woman - lacking in self-confidence probably from an early start of criticisms from family and childhood friends.
She erects the barriers before anyone attempts to have a decent conversation with her so they won’t gain the “upper hand” which in Behar’s world would be the “last word”.
There are billions of pages in Psychological data written on her typology - but just know she is not enjoying life and attempts to destroy others’ good lives.