OK, now I understand what you meant.
I disagree, though. I think gays and hetero's both are either a result of birth and/or conditioning. I doubt folks decide to be het or gay. Straights and gays don't depend on procreation for their sexual orientation, only for their existence.
I also found the cartoon of Rosie O'Donnell offensive. What makes her special is that she was already recognized as a good parent even before she came out. And even Dick Cheney had nice things to say about her. The real enemies are the pharisees (TV preachers) who I believe Jesus will choose not to know when he comes back. I'm glad my wife and I didn't grow up in that kind of family.