Obviously, you haven’t been on the receiving end of sexual harassment. It’s not about dating, or finding a mate, or mutual hooking up.
Shortly, It’s not about sex.
Sure, there are bad-faith complainers that are looking for money. But actual harassment does occur, and it’s vile, demoralizing, and stems from exerting power or dehumanizing the individual harassed. Don’t blame the victim of actual harassment.