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When mommy goes off to war, it's rough on kids [sickening]
The Seattle Times ^ | 11/28/06 | Donna St. George

Posted on 11/29/2006 8:36:31 AM PST by XR7

HAVRE DE GRACE, Md. — When they called her name, she could not move. Sgt. Leana Nishimura intended to walk up proudly, shake the dignitaries' hands and accept their honors for her service in Iraq — a special coin, a lapel pin, a glass-encased U.S. flag.

But her son clung to her leg. He cried and held tight...T.J. was 9, her oldest child, and although eight months had passed since she had returned from the war zone, he was still upset by anything that reminded him of her deployment...

The faraway move to live with his grandmother. The months that went by without his mother's kisses or hugs, without her scrutiny of homework, her teasing humor, her familiar bedtime songs.

Nishimura was a single mother — with no spouse to take over, to preserve her children's routines, to keep up the family apartment.

Of her three children, T.J. seemed to worry most... "He went from having one parent to having no parents, basically," Nishimura said, reflecting. "People have said, 'Thank you so much for your sacrifice.' But it's the children who have had more of a sacrifice."

When war started in Iraq, a generation of U.S. women became involved as never before — in a wider-than-ever array of jobs, for long deployments, in a conflict with daily bloodshed. More than 155,000 women have served in Iraq and Afghanistan.

Among their ranks are more than 16,000 single mothers, according to the Pentagon, a number that military experts say is unprecedented.

How these women have coped and how their children are managing have gone little noticed as the war stretches across a fourth year...

"I tell [the children] that if God needs Mommy to go ... then Mommy's going to have to go again and they're going to have to let me."

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To: TWfromTEXAS

"Perhaps before you tell people to STFU you should improve your reading skills. I read the entire article and nowhere do I find the Sgt. bitching. The writer is a pain in the rear but the Sgt. is ready to go again and wants to stay in."

My good friend, my reading skills are quite fine. Thank-you. This was a military hit piece and she was complicit in it. The whole jest of the story was the military is bad for taking single parents away from their kids. If there is any culpability in this situation, it lies with the sergeant, not with the military. Nobody forced her to join the military.

I understand her missing her children. I have had long deployments too and have missed mine. Nonetheless, I knew what I was in for when I signed my name on the dotted line. I was not out whining to some reporter about having to be away from my kids. Nor was I blaming my deployment on "God". I was going because I agreed to do so.


261 posted on 11/29/2006 6:32:14 PM PST by jgilbert63
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To: Allegra

Have to agree with you.


262 posted on 11/29/2006 6:41:15 PM PST by fishergirl (Proud mom of an Iraq war veteran - to all our veterans Thank You and God Bless)
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To: jgilbert63
I understand her missing her children.

This is not the matter of whether she is missing her children or whether you understand her feelings. It is plain wrong and it is an abomination before God.

BTW, it is very revealing that you did not say how well you understand the CHILDREN missing their mother, do you?

Nor was I blaming my deployment on "God". I was going because I agreed to do so.

So you will condone people selling themselves into slavery and worse if it is based on legal contract?

263 posted on 11/29/2006 7:07:27 PM PST by A. Pole (Solzhenitsyn: "Men have forgotten God; that's why all this has happened.")
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To: A. Pole; Alouette; Dajjal; SkyPilot; wardaddy; All
A sissified nation sends its women and mothers to war against the most implacable, evil foe in our history, perhaps in the history of all civilization.

OPINIONJOURNAL FEDERATION

Losing the Enlightenment
A civilization that has lost confidence in itself cannot confront the Islamists.

BY VICTOR DAVIS HANSON
Wednesday, November 29, 2006 12:01 a.m.

Our current crisis is not yet a catastrophe, but a real loss of confidence of the spirit. The hard-won effort of the Western Enlightenment of some 2,500 years that, along with Judeo-Christian benevolence, is the foundation of our material progress, common decency, and scientific excellence, is at risk in this new millennium.

But our newest foes of Reason are not the enraged Athenian democrats who tried and executed Socrates. And they are not the Christian zealots of the medieval church who persecuted philosophers of heliocentricity. Nor are they Nazis who burned books and turned Western science against its own to murder millions en masse.

No, the culprits are now more often us. In the most affluent, and leisured age in the history of Western civilization--never more powerful in its military reach, never more prosperous in our material bounty--we have become complacent, and then scared of the most recent face of barbarism from the primordial extremists of the Middle East.

What would a beleaguered Socrates, a Galileo, a Descartes, or Locke believe, for example, of the moral paralysis in Europe? Was all their bold and courageous thinking--won at such a great personal cost--to allow their successors a cheap surrender to religious fanaticism and the megaphones of state-sponsored fascism?

Just imagine in our present year, 2006: plan an opera in today's Germany, and then shut it down. Again, this surrender was not done last month by the Nazis, the Communists, or kings, but by the producers themselves in simple fear of Islamic fanatics who objected to purported bad taste. Or write a novel deemed unflattering to the Prophet Mohammed. That is what did Salman Rushdie did, and for his daring, he faced years of solitude, ostracism, and death threats--and in the heart of Europe no less. Or compose a documentary film, as did the often obnoxious Theo Van Gogh, and you may well have your throat cut in "liberal" Holland. Or better yet, sketch a simple cartoon in postmodern Denmark of legendary easy tolerance, and then go into hiding to save yourself from the gruesome fate of a Van Gogh. Or quote an ancient treatise, as did Pope Benedict, and then learn that all of Christendom may come under assault, and even the magnificent stones of the Vatican may offer no refuge--although their costumed Swiss Guard would prove a better bulwark than the European police. Or write a book critical of Islam, and then go into hiding in fear of your life, as did French philosophy teacher Robert Redeker.

And we need not only speak of threats to free speech, but also the tangible rewards from a terrified West to the agents of such repression. Note the recent honorary degree given to former Iranian President, Mohammad Khatami, whose regime has killed and silenced so many, and who himself is under investigation by the Argentine government for his role in sponsoring Hezbollah killers to murder dozens of Jewish innocents in Buenos Aires.

There are many lessons to be drawn from these examples, besides that they represent a good cross-section of European society in Denmark, England, France, Germany, Holland, and Italy. In almost every case, the lack of public support for the threatened artist or intellectual or author was purportedly based either on his supposed lack of sensitivity, or of artistic excellence.

Van Gogh, it was said, was obnoxious, his films sometimes puerile. The academic Pope was perhaps woefully ignorant of public relations in the politically correct age. Were not the cartoons in Denmark amateurish and unnecessary? Rushdie was an overrated novelist, whose chickens of trashing the West he sought refuge in finally came home to roost. The latest Hans Neuenfels's adaptation of Mozart's "Idomeneo" was apparently as silly as it was cheaply sensationalist. And perhaps Robert Redeker need not have questioned the morality of Islam and its Prophet.

But isn't that fact precisely the point? It is easy to defend artists when they produce works of genius that do not challenge popular sensibilities--Da Vinci's "Mona Lisa" or Montesquieu's "Spirit of the Laws"--but not so when an artist offends with neither the taste of a Michelangelo nor the talent of a Dante. Yes, Pope Benedict is old and scholastic; he lacks both the charisma and tact of the late Pope John Paul II, who surely would not have turned for elucidation to the rigidity of Byzantine scholarship. But isn't that why we must come to the present Pope's defense--if for no reason other than because he has the courage to speak his convictions when others might not?

Note also the constant subtext in this new self-censorship of our supposedly liberal age: the fear of radical Islam and its gruesome methods of beheadings, suicide bombings, improvised explosive devices, barbaric fatwas, riotous youth, petrodollar-acquired nuclear weapons, oil boycotts and price hikes, and fist-shaking mobs, as the seventh century is compressed into the twenty-first.

In contrast, almost daily in Europe, "brave" artists caricature Christians and Americans with impunity. And we know what explains the radical difference in attitudes to such freewheeling and "candid" expression--indeed, that hypocrisy of false bravado, of silence before fascists and slander before liberals is both the truth we are silent about, and the lie we promulgate.

There is, in fact, a long list of reasons, among them most surely the assurance that cruel critics of things Western rant without being killed. Such cowards puff out their chests when trashing an ill Oriana Fallaci or a comatose Ariel Sharon or beleaguered George W. Bush in the most demonic of tones, but they prove sunken and sullen when threatened by a thuggish Dr. Zawahiri or a grand mufti of some obscure mosque.

Second, almost every genre of artistic and intellectual expression has come under assault: music, satire, the novel, films, academic exegesis, and education. Somehow Europeans have ever so insidiously given up the promise of the Enlightenment that welcomed free thought of all kinds, the more provocative the better.

Yes, the present generation of Europeans really is heretical, made up of traitors of a sort. They themselves, not just their consensual governments, or the now-demonized American Patriot Act and Guantanamo detention center, or some invader across the Mediterranean, have endangered their centuries-won freedoms of expression--and out of worries over oil, or appearing as illiberal apostates of the new secular religion of multiculturalism, or another London or Madrid bombing. We can understand why outnumbered Venetians surrendered Cyprus to the Ottomans, and were summarily executed, or perhaps why the 16th-century French did not show up at Lepanto, but why this vacillation of present-day Europeans to defend the promise of the West, who are protected by statute and have not experienced war or hunger?

Third, examine why all these incidents took place in Europe, where more and more the state guarantees the good life even into dotage, where the here and now has become a finite world for soulless bodies, where armies devolve into topics of caricature, and children distract from sterile adults' ever-increasing appetites. So, it was logical that Europe most readily of Westerners would abandon the artist and give up the renegade in fear of religious extremists who brilliantly threatened not destruction, but interruption of the good life, or the mere charge of illiberality. Never was the Enlightenment sold out so cheaply.

We on this side of Atlantic also are showing different symptoms of this same Western malaise, but more likely through heated rhetoric than complacent indifference--given the events of September 11 that galvanized many, while disappointing liberals that past appeasement had created monsters rather than mere confused, if not dangerous rivals. The war on terror has turned out to be the torn scab that has exposed a deep wound beneath, of an endemic Western self-loathing--and near mania that our own superior education and material wealth have not eliminated altogether the need for force and coercion.

Consider some of the recent rabid outbursts by once sober, old-guard politicians of the Democratic Party. West Virginia Senator Jay Rockefeller insists that the world would be better off if Saddam were still running Iraq. Congressman John Murtha, of Pennsylvania, rushed to announce that our Marines were guilty of killing Iraqis in "cold blood" before they were tried. Illinois Senator Richard Durbin has compared our interrogators at Guantanamo Bay to Nazis and mass murderers, while Massachusetts Senator John Kerry said our soldiers have "terrorized" Iraqi women and children. The same John Kerry warned young Americans to study or they would end up in the volunteer army in Iraq--even though today's soldiers have higher educational levels than does the general public. But furor as well as fear, not logic, drives us in West to seek blame among the humane among us rather than the savagery of our enemies.

Billionaire leftist philanthropists seem to be confused about the nature of American society and politics that gave them everything they so sumptuously enjoy. Ted Turner of CNN fame and fortune said he resented President Bush asking Americans, after 9/11, to take sides in our war against Islamic terrorists. George Soros claimed that President Bush had improved on Nazi propaganda methods. Dreaming of killing an elected president, not a mass-murdering Osama Bin Laden, is a new national pastime. That is the theme of both a recent docudrama film and an Alfred Knopf book.

What are the proximate causes here in America that send liberal criticism over the edge into pathological hysteria? Is it only that George Bush is a singular polarizing figure of Christian and Texan demeanor? Or is the current left-wing savagery also a legacy of the tribal 1960s, when out-of-power protestors felt that expressions of speaking bluntly, even crudely, were at least preferable to "artificial" cultural restraint?

Or does the anger stem from the fact, that until last week, the Democrats had not elected congressional majorities in 12 years, and they've occupied the White House in only eight of the last 26 years. The left's current unruliness seems a way of scapegoating others for a more elemental frustration--that without scandal or an unpopular war they cannot so easily gain a national majority based on European-based beliefs. More entitlements, higher taxes to pay for them, gay marriage, de facto quotas in affirmative action, open borders, abortion on demand, and radical secularism--these liberal issues, at least for the moment, still don't tend to resonate with most Americans and so must be masked by opponents' scandals or overshadowed by a controversial war.

Just as the Europeans are stunned that their heaven on earth has left them weak and afraid, so too millions of Americans on the Left are angry that their own promised moral utopia is not so welcomed by the supposedly less educated and bright among them. But still, what drives Westerners, here and in Europe, to demand that we must be perfect rather than merely good, and to lament that if we are not perfect we are then abjectly bad--and always to be so unable to define and then defend their civilization against its most elemental enemies?

There has of course always been a utopian strain in both Western thought from the time of Plato's "Republic" and the practice of state socialism. But the technological explosion of the last 20 years has made life so long and so good, that many now believe our mastery of nature must extend to human nature as well. A society that can call anywhere in the world on a cell phone, must just as easily end war, poverty, or unhappiness, as if these pathologies are strictly materially caused, not impoverishments of the soul, and thus can be materially treated.

Second, education must now be, like our machines, ever more ambitious, teaching us not merely facts of the past, science of the future, and the tools to question, and discover truth, but rather a particular, a right way of thinking, as money and learning are pledged to change human nature itself. In such a world, mere ignorance has replaced evil as our challenge, and thus the bad can at last be taught away rather than confronted and destroyed.

Third, there has always been a cynical strain as well, as one can read in Petronius's "Satyricon" or Voltaire's "Candide." But our loss of faith in ourselves is now more nihilistic than sarcastic or skeptical, once the restraints of family, religion, popular culture, and public shame disappear. Ever more insulated by our material things from danger, we lack all appreciation of the eternal thin veneer of civilization.

We especially ignore among us those who work each day to keep nature and the darker angels of our own nature at bay. This new obtuseness revolves around a certain mocking by elites of why we have what we have. Instead of appreciating that millions get up at 5 a.m., work at rote jobs, and live proverbial lives of quiet desperation, we tend to laugh at the schlock of Wal-Mart, not admire its amazing ability to bring the veneer of real material prosperity to the poor.

We can praise the architect for our necessary bridge, but demonize the franchise that sold fast and safe food to the harried workers who built it. We hear about a necessary hearing aid, but despise the art of the glossy advertisement that gives the information to purchase it. And we think the soldier funny in his desert camouflage and Kevlar, a loser who drew poorly in the American lottery and so ended up in Iraq--our most privileged never acknowledging that such men with guns are the only bulwark between us and the present day forces of the Dark Ages with their Kalashnikovs and suicide belts.

So we are on dangerous ground. History gives evidence of no civilization that survived long as purely secular and without a god, that put its trust in reason alone, and believed human nature was subject to radical improvement given enough capital and learning invested in the endeavor. The failure of our elites to amplify their traditions they received, and to believe them to be not merely different but far better than the alternatives, is also a symptom of crisis in all societies of the past, whether Demosthenes' Athens, late imperial Rome, 18th-century France, or Western Europe of the 1920s. Nothing is worse that an elite that demands egalitarianism for others but ensures privilege for itself. And rarely, we know, are civilization's suicides a result of the influence of too many of the poor rather than of the wealthy.

But can I end on an optimistic note in tonight's tribute to Winston Churchill, who endured more and was more alone than we of the present age? After the horror of September 11, we in our sleep were also given a jolt of sorts, presented with enemies from the Dark Ages, the Islamic fascists who were our near exact opposites, who hated the Western tradition, and, more importantly, were honest and without apology in conveying that hatred of our liberal tolerance and forbearance. They arose not from anything we did or any Western animosity that might have led to real grievances, but from self-acknowledged weakness, self-induced failure, and, of course, those perennial engines of war, age-old envy and lost honor--always amplified and instructed by dissident Western intellectuals whose unhappiness with their own culture proved a feast for the scavenging Al-Qaedists.

By past definitions of relative power, al-Qaeda and its epigones were weak and could not defeat the West militarily. But their genius was knowing of our own self-loathing, of our inability to determine their evil from our good, of our mistaken belief that Islamists were confused about, rather than intent to destroy, the West, and most of all, of our own terror that we might lose, if even for a brief moment, the enjoyment of our good life to defeat the terrorists. In learning what the Islamists are, many of us, and for the first time, are also learning what we are not. And in fighting these fascists, we are to learn whether our freedom can prove stronger than their suicide belts and improvised explosive devices.

So we have been given a reprieve of sorts with this war, to regroup; and, in our enemies, to see our own past failings and present challenges; and to rediscover our strengths and remember our origins. We can relearn that we are not fighting for George Bush or Wal-Mart alone, but also for the very notion of the Enlightenment--and, yes, in the Christian sense for the good souls of those among us who have forgotten all that as they censor cartoons and compare American soldiers to Nazis.

So let me quote Winston Churchill of old about the gift of our present ordeal:

"These are not dark days: these are great days--the greatest days our country has ever lived."

Never more true than today.

Mr. Hanson is a senior fellow of the Hoover Institution, a distinguished fellow of Hillsdale College, and author most recently of "A War Like No Other: How the Athenians and Spartans Fought the Peloponnesian War." This article is adapted form a speech he delivered at the Claremont Institute's annual dinner in honor Sir Winston Churchill.

264 posted on 11/29/2006 8:30:32 PM PST by XR7
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To: Cogadh na Sith

Good for them :)


265 posted on 11/29/2006 8:43:12 PM PST by Accygirl
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To: Stone Mountain

I think the problem is definition of single mother. If you say single mother, most people would assume that meant an unwed mother,not a divorcee or a widow.

Look at how many people responded that this SGT should have kept her legs closed, had a husband, been married and worse.


266 posted on 11/29/2006 9:44:00 PM PST by art_rocks
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To: XR7

I know lots of vets who would argue that this is a REAL HOT WAR.


267 posted on 11/29/2006 9:46:13 PM PST by art_rocks
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To: XR7
Thanks for the ping!

George Gilder has written a few books about how an entire society can commit "sexual suicide."

268 posted on 11/29/2006 11:58:54 PM PST by Dajjal (See my FR homepage for new essay about Ahmadinejad.)
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To: art_rocks
I know lots of vets who would argue that this is a REAL HOT WAR.

Just wait.

269 posted on 11/30/2006 1:44:47 AM PST by XR7
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To: XR7
Our boys are raised to be "tolerant" and gay. Girls are supposed to be tough ("grrlz").

I've noticed in a lot of commercials where they'll be like a mini-van full of metrosexual looking men and along comes a group of motorcycles surrounding them.Guess what gets off the bikes,of course it's women.In other words,it's the women who appear macho and the men whimpy.Movies are just as bad,where a frail looking woman will beat the hell out of 200-250 lb men with ease.

270 posted on 11/30/2006 2:21:42 AM PST by Uncle Meat
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To: XR7
But our loss of faith in ourselves is now more nihilistic than sarcastic or skeptical, once the restraints of family, religion, popular culture, and public shame disappear. Ever more insulated by our material things from danger, we lack all appreciation of the eternal thin veneer of civilization.

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Excellent article. Thanks.

271 posted on 11/30/2006 2:24:59 AM PST by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Mrs. Don-o
Pret'near the whole purpose of Free Republic, and every post on it, is to "be judgmental" --- to discuss our judgment of people, events, and ideas. Check it out. Every post makes a judgment of some sort. Even yours.

Yeah, well, threads like this are good for one thing. They demonstrate who the real jerks are, who has a vendetta, and who has the "if you're not exactly like me, you're wrong" attitude.

They certainly showcase the conservatives who give us all a bad name.

And that's all I have to say about that.

272 posted on 11/30/2006 2:33:53 AM PST by Allegra (Can't Talk Now...I'm Busy Looking for That Civil War the Media Keeps Talking About)
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To: XR7
So sad to read. I knew lots, and lots, and lots of women like this when I was active duty.

There are a myriad of problems at work here that unfortunately become a "Perfect Storm" when added together:

1. Divorce or out of wedlock births (this woman was divorced according to the article).

2. A military a national policy that has bought into feminism.

3. The war in Iraq has lasted longer than WW II because we refuse to recognize the enemy as Islam and have deluded ourselves that they really want Democracy.

4. The collapse of Judeo-Christianity in our nation that has led to secularization and pluralization.

I have held the children of these moms, and it is devastating. There is also a flip side to this equation that the article does not mention:

- Many, many women in units become non-deployable due to pregnancy. Most will admit they did this to avoid deployment. When this happens, the men who just returned from a rotation have to go away again. If the men are fathers and husbands themselves, that is just too bad.

273 posted on 11/30/2006 3:22:19 AM PST by SkyPilot
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To: XR7

I disagree.

While there are many things that men are more capable of doing than women, on average, and while hand-to-hand combat, which relies so much on upper-body strength, is one of them, that form of combat is the least-frequently encountered form of cambat in todays hi-tech military.

Secondly, the natural physical differences between men and women are not ignored by the military in the aptitude qualifications and training and testing for military roles. Thus, women are, by aptitude, training and testing, found in much higher frequencies than men in support and combat-support roles, and not very often found in jobs like infantry or tanks, for instance.

I know that does not address your belief that men should actually deny any military roles to women, for their own good and as part of fulfilling the man's role of protecting the womenfolk.

At least in the present all-volunteer US military, that decision is made by the women themselves. And, in fact, it probably reflects the fact that most women agree with you, as do most of their "men folk" and thus women continue to enlist at lower rates than men.

I do not see anything "dishonourable" in that.


274 posted on 11/30/2006 9:39:21 AM PST by Wuli
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To: XR7

Poor kids. I have relatives who've had their child in daycare since 4 months of age... They didn't need to do it for financial reasons. It really is tragic what is happening to kids in this country. Life never was easy, but some adults seem to make it harder for kids than it needs to be. I have known women who served for decades, but they didn't have kids...


275 posted on 11/30/2006 11:55:41 AM PST by PghBaldy (Reporter: Are you surprised? Nancy Pelosi: No. My eyes always look like this.)
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To: PghBaldy

Could part of the reason for articles like this be that the reporter is trying to say Charlie Rangel etc is right? I just can't believe this was the ONLY option for this mother. Now, she says she wants to make the military her life. That is commendable, but what about her kids? Will society have to deal with them in the future cause they're messed up?


276 posted on 11/30/2006 12:07:58 PM PST by PghBaldy (Reporter: Are you surprised? Nancy Pelosi: No. My eyes always look like this.)
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To: Wuli
While there are many things that men are more capable of doing than women, on average, and while hand-to-hand combat, which relies so much on upper-body strength, is one of them, that form of combat is the least-frequently encountered form of cambat in todays hi-tech military.

But it is encountered frequently. And when it is, a woman in the unit compromises the mission and puts the lives of men at risk, i.e.: Ms. Jessica Lynch.

277 posted on 11/30/2006 12:09:31 PM PST by XR7
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To: PghBaldy; SkyPilot; A. Pole; All
What Kind of Nation Sends Women into Combat?
by Cort Kirkwood

The ridiculous spectacle of rescued POW Pfc. Jessica Lynch, the feisty, ballyhooed warrior of the Army’s 507th Maintenance Company, which was butchered early on in Iraq, occasioned the usual war whoops. Yet no one asked a simple question: What in heaven’s name was a hundred-pound girl, barely out of pigtails and high school, doing in a combat zone?

The more cosmic abstraction of woman in combat evokes little if any debate these days, and what little debate we hear isn’t loud enough. Other women have been killed and captured, including at least one single mother, and it’s all just part of the modern military. As one lady columnist for the Washington Post triumphantly pronounced, the debate over women in combat “is over.”

How many Americans knew that?

Whatever the answer, a few days ago in this corner of cyberspace, this writer suggested a fine way to stop American wars of conquest: Conscript the sons of politicians and bureaucrats who start them. Nearly three dozen letters came in, almost every one posing this question with the corollary mandate: Why are you excluding the daughters? Let Bush send his daughters to war.

It’s a passionate and in some ways understandable reaction.

And most likely, it won’t be long before women, along with young men, are required to register for the draft; the explanation for that observation appears below. But first, an answer for those correspondents: The debate over women in combat turns on two questions: whether women can do it (handle the rigors of combat) and whether they should do it (is it morally acceptable and socially desirable).

In a word, no. It is un-American, un-Christian, and immoral.

The Practical Question

As a practical matter, 99 percent of women are unsuited for combat, and that includes flying combat aircraft and serving on combatant ships. That women do these things doesn’t mean they should; it just means the military has been feminized and civilianized, as any military man will admit after a few shots of Jack Daniels at the Officers’ Club, and of course, after his commanding officer leaves.

In the early 1990s, I was a staff member on the Presidential Commission on the Assignment of Women in the Armed Forces. The evidence the commission gathered was clear on one thing: Women don’t belong in combat.

The evidence showed women lack the necessary physical prowess. The strongest woman recruit, generally, is only as strong as the weakest man. Given that the services try to weed out the weakest men, it’s counterproductive to recruit even the strongest women. And our volunteer military, remember, doesn’t get the strongest women; it gets average women.

As well, women suffer higher rates of bone fractures, and other factors such as menstruation, pregnancy and aging militate against recruiting women as combat soldiers. The 20-something woman, for instance, has about the same lungpower as the 50-something man.

Well, that might be true for ground combat, the feminists insist, but surely they can fly jets and bombers. It’s all just a Nintendo game up there. Again, untrue. Flying high-performance jets requires incredible conditioning and strength, particularly in the neck. Top Gun fighter pilots told the commission (and news reports later confirmed) that unqualified lady pilots routinely passed Naval flight training. At that time at least, officers were rated on the number of women they promoted. The result in one case? Kara Hultgreen, the first woman to “qualify” flying an F-14, was killed when her jet crashed because she couldn’t land it on the carrier Abraham Lincoln.

But let’s suppose women fly jets as well as men. What happens when one is shot down? The safety of the high-tech cockpit is gone, and she is alone on the ground, trying to survive. She is another Jessica Lynch.

As for the ships, consider the obvious: You don’t send a few nubile sailorettes aboard Navy ships with 1,500 horny sailors, no matter what the Navy says about its “leadership” correcting carnal temptations. As well, the strength deficit surfaces again in many shipboard tasks too numerous to mention here.

Military training is another area where the women fall flat; they cannot survive the same basic training as men, so it is “gender-normed.” That means the services (and military academies) have different standards for women than for men, and not just for hair length. If women were held to the same standards as men, more than 14 percent of our armed forces would not be women; they could not attend the academies. Oddly enough, the feminists aver that scrapping the double standard would be discriminatory! So much for judging someone on her true merit.

In the decade since the commission heard tons of testimony on these points, nothing has changed unless women have evolved markedly improved muscle and bone. In reply to these unassailable facts, some suggest some women can meet the same standards with the proper weight training and physical-fitness regimen. That’s a stretch, but let’s say a few can. That takes us back to the weakest man vs. the strongest woman. What standard would these few meet? The lowest among the men? Even if they fell among men of medium strength, consider the prohibitive cost of selecting these Amazonian anomalies from among general population. And finding them assumes they want to be found.

A friend of mine, a former Green Beret, suggests an experiment: Let’s train two squads, one all women, the other all men, to peak physical and combat-ready condition. Then drop them in the woods for a war game and see who wins.

Point is, women get by in the military only because of men. As one Internet wag observed, the equipment one man carries into combat is nearly as heavy, perhaps heavier, than Jessica Lynch. Lynch and women her size do not have the strength to carry a fallen 200-pound comrade out of harm’s way. Forgetting about combat, some women aircraft mechanics need men to lift their toolboxes. Without men, the armed forces would collapse, and the more women the military enlists, the weaker it becomes.

As one commissioner remarked in exasperation: “Women are not little men, and men are not big women.”

The Moral Question

That leaves the moral and social questions, which commission member and Vietnam War hero Ron Ray addressed with this remark: “The question isn’t whether women can do, it’s whether they should do it.”

Women should only be used in combat, Ray argued, if national survival demands it; i.e., when the Indians are circling the ranch and the men are dead and wounded. Even then, using women would be a last resort. It would not become a policy. Such an emergency isn’t likely to happen here unless Saddam Hussein’s vaunted Republican Guards make a spectacular comeback and march into Jonah Goldberg’s and Sean Hannity’s neighborhoods. In that case, we know all the women will be fighting.

The kidding aside, the moral and social argument is one of “rights” vs. what is right. The feminists claim combat service is a “right.” Nonsense.

A battlefield is not a boardroom, a courtroom or an operating room, and the contrary notion is hyperegalitarianism rooted in feminist fantasies that women “will have made it” when they have commanded troops in battle. Women do not have a “right” to serve. Military service for volunteers is a privilege; for draftees, it is a duty. No one has a “right” to serve, a civilian idea equivalent to having the “right” to be a doctor or lawyer that has no place in the military, whose principal purpose is to kill the enemy and destroy his capacity to fight.

In “Crimson Tide,” Gene Hackman’s submarine skipper explained the point: The armed forces defend democracy, they do not practice it.

So much for “rights.” Now, as to whether women in combat is right:

At one commission hearing, Col. John Ripley, one of the most famous Marines who fought in Vietnam, explained combat for the largely civilian audience. A good picture of real combat, he said, is walking down a path to find your best friend nailed to a tree, or his private parts in his mouth. The feminists and military women in the audience gnashed their teeth.

Then again, they don’t understand that until Bill Clinton’s war minister Les Aspin changed it, the law excluding women from combat was always considered a privileged exemption, not sex discrimination. It was the thoughtful recognition that women should be spared the carnage and cruelty of war.

Why?

Because turning a woman into the kind of person who views such gore without blinking an eye, or who participates in the wanton killing war requires, is a step down to pagan barbarism and cultural suicide. In some sense, given what we’ve seen in the Gulf, we’ve already taken that step. But the feminists won’t quit until they get women into ground combat units. As recent events prove, no one seems to care what all this means not only culturally but also psychologically.

It will require training men and women to regard the brutalization of women, and a woman’s brutalization of others, as normal and acceptable. To train the men properly, a woman commissioner observed, we must erase everything their mothers taught them about chivalry; i.e., that a real man protects a woman from harm. Instead, they must be trained to brain a woman with a pugil stick in training. This truth raises two paradoxes.

On one hand, to completely desensitize the men, such training would be required. But the feminists don’t want that because women can’t meet the same standards as men; they won’t survive it. Yet how are these women to survive combat if they cannot survive real, not gender-normed, basic training? The men would have to protect them. Successfully integrating women in combat means this: A soldier must ignore the screams of a woman POW being tortured and raped.

On the other hand, while the feminists never stop the finger-wagging about “domestic abuse,” they importune us to inure men to the wartime abuse of women. Again, to some degree, we’re already there. The capture and torture of Jessica Lynch and Shoshana Johnson, the single mother, was just another day in the war. But then again, the society that sent these young women to war is the same one that has steroidally-fortified men and women bashing each other senseless in television’s faux wrestling, which presents the illusion that women really can fight against men, as well as preposterous movies about women Navy SEALS, or women who receive the Medal of Honor while the men cower in fear.


The few good men who rescued Pfc. Jessica Lynch.

Lastly, assigning women to combat, or even combat support units like the 507th, purposely subjects them to trials and tribulations for which nature has not prepared them. Such assignments endanger not only the women but also the men around them, who will redirect their attention from fighting toward protecting or helping the women. Men will do that because they are men, because regardless of feminist propaganda, good parents teach their sons about chivalry and honor. The Steinem brigade doesn’t like it, but it’s true nonetheless. Thus, men will die unnecessarily. That is immoral and unjust, as is ordering married men and women to live in close quarters where they are tempted to adultery. Some observers even question the legality of orders sending women into combat. But that is a debate for another day.

Ray’s point? Civilized Christians don’t send women and mothers to fight the wars. Chronicles editor Tom Fleming has observed that our nation has become anti-Christian. The saga of Pfc. Lynch and other military women proves him right. The Final Answer

Back to that draft

Don’t be surprised if women are required to register. Legally speaking, the draft exemption for women is tied to their exemption from combat. Now women serve in aerial and naval action. And given the proximity to combat of women in “maintenance” and other units, it won’t be long before the politicians, and bemedaled generals in the Army and Marines, hoist the white flag and put women in ground combat. Then, some young man will file the inevitable “equal protection” lawsuit and the exemption will fall, its legal rationale having been dropped.

Oddly enough, the silly clamor for women in combat assumes most military women want combat assignments. The commission found that they don’t. Only a few aging feminists do, and of course, they won’t be subject to the combat assignments or the draft. When you join the military, you join voluntarily, but you go where they need you. When women get their “right” to fight, they won’t have the “right” to refuse. And why would they? After that, again, comes the draft for women.

The answer to the many folks who suggest conscripting women is this: Real Americans don’t send women to war. Neither do real men. A genuine Christian wouldn’t contemplate it. The story of Jessica Lynch reveals an awful truth: All three are in short supply, particularly among American political and military leaders.

Syndicated columnist R. Cort Kirkwood served on the Presidential Commission on the Assignment of Women in the Armed Forces.


278 posted on 11/30/2006 11:34:58 PM PST by XR7
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Look at those Marines whose lives were put on the line to rescue little Pfc. Jessica Lynch.
Look at 'em good and hard.
And who got all the acclaim and accolades in the media?
The hero, of course - little Jessica.
That little experiment in social engineering almost cost those few good men their lives.
And for what? To prove what?
I weep for our country when I see how screwed up we are,
and no leader on the horizon offers any hope of change.


279 posted on 11/30/2006 11:41:26 PM PST by XR7
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To: XR7

Good article.


280 posted on 12/01/2006 2:22:53 AM PST by PghBaldy (Reporter: Are you surprised? Nancy Pelosi: No. My eyes always look like this.)
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