I think it’s a valid point. I’ve seen how the singles threads end up with it being top heavy from two different ends, the younger males and the older (older as in 50s+) females, either divorced or widowed. Unless you have some Harold & Maude thing going on, that’s not going to work out too well. I wouldn’t think young males are going to want to go after the older ladies, and the older ladies after children. :-P
As for your description, I’m three decades too young for you.
Disregard.