[GBA]

Very good advice! So good, you probably should charge me for it.

Now with a few battle scars, I've come to appreciate the wisdom in your post.

Otoh, I know what I'm missing living as I do now, both the good and the bad.

If that option should ever present itself, I won't be shy.

[BobL]

Thanks...usually I get hammered for advising my kids to stay clear of cultures that seem to value divorce more than marriage.

I hope the chance comes, we do have a LOT of immigrants in this country, so there are possibilities. Good luck!