Oh yes...I think it keeps him slightly in check...he doesn't like to hurt me...which is why he sneaks instead of telling me "up yours"....
what sorts of consquences are there for you to inflict on him for when he does get caught? taking the travel hockey away from xsboy would keep him obeying us, bc there is no way he can do it without us paying for it and hauling his butt to and fro. They have to learn consequences for their actions and it has to be something that is very meaningful to them.