I would strongly suggest she cancel herself from any FaceBook or other such sites........
FWIW, a friend invited me to join FaceBook or some such site but in doing so it would require me to provide info that I have no wish the rest of the entire world having access to. In fact, I have already contacted him to remove me as a "friend" and to remove any pictures of me as his friend that he may have posted on his site...........
Thank you for all your help. I think I have a sense of this and will try to move slowly and perhaps she will understand the greater impact of what she is doing.