I live in a odd area of the world because I rarely see a out-of-control kids. There was a little tike running around last Saturday between the tables at the ice cream shop. He made a half a round before dad caught him up and said in a low but firm voice, "ok, that's enough bud. We don't do that here."
Kid went and sat down and ate his ice cream.
Those kinds of kids I have no problem with.
I think if I ran into some of the horror stories other people do I would have a different opinion.