Well, with a good intent, there is no failure. God is waiting in our conscience and is very powerful.
“Good intent” is never completely possible for saints on this side of heaven. “No one is good but God,” said Jesus, and meant it in the absolute sense.
You are setting up to spiritually judge people that God may not have set up to win a certain aspect of victory at this particular earthly moment. This is very close to spiritual bullying.