I tried to teach some. I even would pose arguments just to encourage debate. I suppose we have had so many in the GOP-E, so many Romneyites and others, try to use such tactics to divide and conquer that debate has become suspect. I do not know the answer; I wish I did. There are some things Conservatives can disagree upon when both parties are still conservative. I do not believe that destroying the concept of marriage to appease a militant group of deviants is not one of those things.
Try listening to City on the Hill by Casting Crowns.