I am a man, have been married for 20 wonderful if sometimes tumultuous years. I travel for a living so have had many opportunities.
Frankly, I would cut off my own Johnson before cheating on my wife (actually it isn’t a problem — I would be unable to perform).
Maybe I am a “strange man” but love, respect and loyalty are all wrapped up in sex for me.
I am sure I am not alone.
You are not alone. You are what “normal” should be. Would never cheat on my wife. Would be cheating on myself, my kids, my family, my God.