I think cats are the way they are is by instint they are solitary hunters and therefore totally independent, except for lions. I love all cats but don’t like lions, never did, never will... even if you feed your cat, when out he will still hunt. Love cats don’t like hairballs and spraying to mark their territory...
Cats hunt alone, but they do form social groups. When you’re a member of a cat’s pride, it’ll let you know.
FReepmail me if I can help with hairball or spraying problems.