It has been my experience that a man keeping calm in an arguement makes a woman even angrier.
Yes, women want get back the same level of emotional intensity that they’re putting out, to show you really care.
I think it was the university of californication at berkly that did a study and was “shocked” to find that in domestic disputes, women resorted violence first by a 51 to 49 percent margin.
When all this male hating crap first hit the scene, men got arrested just because they were there, and she was crying.
Now, guys have learned to hold back on the return fire, and a LOT of women are ending up in the chill room because of it.
Cops don’t automatically believe the “little lady” and her tales of woe and abuse anymore.
Watched the neighbors get into a knock down drag out. The dude never layed a finger on her. Of course, when the cops showed up, all of a sudden medusa face turned to cry baby tears face. “He choked me, he choked me.” The female cop took her flashlight and looked all over for marks, finding none, she turned to the supervisor and gave a very discrete ‘thumbs down.’ When they turned her around and cuffed her, medusa face came roaring back. Not only did she get hammered for domestic violence (dude had a bloody nose and busted lip) she got hammered for trying to assault the female cop and the supervisor, who she really laid into with a verbal assault that would make a sailor blush. (The divorce came soon after, neighborhood never saw her again thank goodness.)
So, the worm turns.
And Just Damn, the hissy fits.