FWIW, saying "I respect the office, but I don't respect her," either means you try to be civil out of respect for the office or it means nothing. Not being civil is anybody's right, but don't trot out the old chestnut about respecting the office, if you actually don't.
Fortunately for me, I don’t respect an office, president or otherwise. I only respect people who deserve my respect.
I like Herr Hitlery the best. It shows dignity of office.
Offices don’t have feelings, so I don’t bother respecting offices. When an office is occupied by a crooked, grasping, greedy, lying, baby-killing sodomite, I just follow my gut.