I think Spike Lee is the source of this observation.
You do not need gaydar, the dudes shoes reveal all you need to know
Look at all the faggot clothing our forebears wore. Sodomites all!
If you actually asked women, they were glad when style mavens gave them permission to jettison the high heeled pumps for formal wear. It was hell on their feet. And anyhow, it didn’t hurt gentlemen to bend down a little lower to kiss them (women tend to be a bit shorter than men).
Dude, if you want to dress in women’s clothing it’s your own business. There’s no reason to justify it to the rest of us.