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Help: Good friend of family (Catholic) is unsure of her Salvation - Afraid to assume Heaven.

Posted on 09/28/2014 6:24:41 PM PDT by RoosterRedux

Spent the last week with Mom in hospital. A very close friend of Mom's (like an adopted daughter) is a wonderful help, but as a Catholic, is always fearful of her destination.

She says that assuming that she will go to Heaven is beyond her...so she is painfully afraid and spreads that fear to others.

Please help with your opinions.

What should I say to her? She is neurotically fearful of her own future and spreads that fear generously.


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To: imardmd1
But the question I have for you is, do you have any suggestions for that Muslim that is in my house right now?

:-)

61 posted on 09/29/2014 1:00:31 AM PDT by Mark17 (So we tanned his hide when he died Clyde and that's it hanging on the shed. Altogether now)
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To: Mark17

Same. Just substitute Witnessisn, Or Methodism. Or . . . whatever. Only Jesus, only The Crucified Jesus Jehovah saves. Eh?


62 posted on 09/29/2014 1:19:00 AM PDT by imardmd1 (Fiat Lux)
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To: Mark17

It’s getting late. 09:21 hours Zulu now. Jesus is still waiting . . .


63 posted on 09/29/2014 1:21:46 AM PDT by imardmd1 (Fiat Lux)
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To: imardmd1
Same. Just substitute Witnessisn, Or Methodism. Or . . . whatever. Only Jesus, only The Crucified Jesus Jehovah saves. Eh?

Yep. It does feel a bit strange to have a Muslim in my house. I was just talking to her a few minutes ago.

64 posted on 09/29/2014 1:31:38 AM PDT by Mark17 (So we tanned his hide when he died Clyde and that's it hanging on the shed. Altogether now)
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To: ClearCase_guy

...”No one can be sure that Christ in His mercy will allow one into heaven”....

That’s not true...you can Know...and so can she.

Will be praying the “right” individual God will send to her, and give her ears to hear so that she may ‘know’ she has eternal life.... We can all know.


65 posted on 09/29/2014 1:36:22 AM PDT by caww
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To: RoosterRedux

...”she said that her faith told her that she should not assume that she would go to Heaven”....

Ask her “who” she’s put her faith in... if ‘Jesus’... YOU can pray ‘with’ her right at that moment that ‘HE’ will give her the assurance she needs at this time.... He is fully able to reach her heart and mind.

Lord Jesus,

There is one who suffers now not knowing the comfort and assurance of her final destination....That is a fearful place to be Lord...and only you can giver what her need is.

Lord,....You know exactly the individual who can bring her what she needs to have that assurance...and the salvation you offer if she does not yet know you. Bring that individual to her Lord, and make way for the message that you have for her to be heard.

Thank you Lord that it is you who have all things in your control...we all trust you now for her soul..her heart...and her mind...may she truly know your peace very soon.

In Jesus Name, Amen


66 posted on 09/29/2014 1:48:54 AM PDT by caww
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To: RoosterRedux

How is your mom handling being around this woman? If she’s creating dis-comfort for your mom then you need to set some boundaries around how long she’s there....You can limit her visits and do so without offending her. OF course your mom is your first concern.

It’s nice to have help...but sometimes it’s not healthy ...might better have things cluttered etc. then unrest.


67 posted on 09/29/2014 2:01:50 AM PDT by caww
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To: Mark17

Sometimes it’s hard to find a Dale Carnegie moment, eh? :^)


68 posted on 09/29/2014 2:14:40 AM PDT by imardmd1 (Fiat Lux)
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To: caww

I read your profile. That about sums up our state of affairs perfectly.


69 posted on 09/29/2014 2:22:48 AM PDT by Mark17 (So we tanned his hide when he died Clyde and that's it hanging on the shed. Altogether now)
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To: Mark17

Yeah, unfortunately it does. And so with that I’m making my world smaller.... More selective about who I see and where I go...and value my time as never before. Actually life has proven better for doing so!


70 posted on 09/29/2014 2:58:23 AM PDT by caww
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To: RoosterRedux
"In the same way, I tell you, there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner repenting than over ninety-nine upright people who have no need of repentance."

Luke 15:7

Confession is the answer. Ask her to have a priest pay her a visit.

71 posted on 09/29/2014 3:57:51 AM PDT by Oratam
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To: Old Yeller

24 You see that a man is justified by works and not by faith alone. James 2:24


72 posted on 09/29/2014 4:56:02 AM PDT by vladimir998
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To: Hootowl

“Well, to me the text indicates an outside agent snatching someone out of God’s hand. Can’t be done. If you can “snatch” yourself out (and there is sufficient Biblical evidence that you can do so), then you’re right; but no one else can do it to you and that, I believe, was the sense of the passage.”

That’s exactly my point. The problem is that some people look at that verse as saying once you believe in Jesus that’s it, you’re saved and you can never lose your salvation. That is plainly not the case because people can choose to sin, choose to renounce their faith in Christ, or simply push Christ aside and indulge in sin with no desire to repent.


73 posted on 09/29/2014 4:58:35 AM PDT by vladimir998
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To: steve86
Most (good) Catholics will end up in Purgatory. Most all Protestants — Hell. Doesn’t matter what Protestant beliefs they have.

LOL!

74 posted on 10/05/2014 10:05:07 PM PDT by Alex Murphy ("the defacto Leader of the FR Calvinist Protestant Brigades")
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