So the cell spec would be like this:
<TH ALIGN=center VALIGN=middle BACKGROUND="...the_youtube_image URL..." WIDTH=xxx HEIGHT=yyy>And for what it's worth, I just tried this out and it does work. And for the heck of it I used an animated GIF for the central (smaller) image, and it animates correctly.
<IMG SRC="...the_play_button_URL...">
</TH>
Cool!
Tomorrow when I have not traveled for 10 hours I will give it a shot.
Right now it is all I can do but thank you, which I do, greatly.