Free Republic
Browse · Search
General/Chat
Topics · Post Article

Skip to comments.

The Dating Struggles Of Being An Alpha Female
The Bolde ^ | October 12, 2015 | Andrea Wesley

Posted on 11/02/2015 8:20:05 AM PST by C19fan

eing an alpha female is, for the most part, pretty awesome. I know this because I am one. We’re wildly independent, ferociously driven and we favor passion over tender romanticizing. We’re also incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men. This makes our dating lives more of a challenge to navigate. We’re not your typical submissive and doting partners, we’re a challenge. For this reason, finding a man who can handle and understand the traits we carry is much harder. These are the real struggles of being an alpha female in the dating world.

(Excerpt) Read more at thebolde.com ...


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: alphafemale; crazybroads; dating; goddess; hottie; pua; redpill; trp
Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first previous 1-20 ... 101-120121-140141-160 ... 241-257 next last
To: C19fan
...finding a man who can handle and understand the traits we carry is much harder.

Denial ain't just a river in in Egypt.

121 posted on 11/02/2015 10:01:11 AM PST by Talisker (One who commands, must obey.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: ken in texas

I’m wondering how much her fetchins up influenced what she is today? We’re pretty sure that Obola became the narcissistic asshat he is by being coddled and given everything he wanted as a child.

But if she weren’t so PROUD of being a misfit, she could probably repent of it and be a relatively normal person.


122 posted on 11/02/2015 10:02:09 AM PST by Tucker39 (Welcome to America! Now speak English; and keep to the right....In driving, in Faith, and politics.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 23 | View Replies]

To: Liberty Valance

As long as she can shoot skeet, drive a 4-speed and make a sandwich i see no problem.


The only way she would know anything about 4-speeds is if her vibrator is variable.


123 posted on 11/02/2015 10:02:42 AM PST by saleman
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 25 | View Replies]

To: C19fan

Andrea Wesley needs to get over herself. She isn’t that special, she just thinks she is. Who wants to put up with such an arrogant, selfish, loathsome person anyway?

Maybe she could TRY to be a little more humble and caring of others.


124 posted on 11/02/2015 10:07:43 AM PST by kcvl
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: C19fan

The entitlement mentality is strong with this one. I feel sorry for the sucker that in unfortunate enough to “land her”. She is the poster child for pumping and dumping.


125 posted on 11/02/2015 10:08:24 AM PST by rollo tomasi (Working hard to pay for deadbeats and corrupt politicians.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Bob434

According to the Alumni Association, she’s married.


126 posted on 11/02/2015 10:08:54 AM PST by NorthMountain ("The time has come", the Walrus said, "to talk of many things")
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 119 | View Replies]

To: from occupied ga
Why would she need to date anyone? From her self description she's perfect as she is now. She can just stare into her mirror like any other narcissist and contemplate perfection.

EXACTLY!

roflol!

127 posted on 11/02/2015 10:09:13 AM PST by kcvl
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 19 | View Replies]

To: C19fan

Uh, it’s not that we can’t “handle it”.

It’s just that it’s not salient (look it up).

Because YOU are attracted to these traits (being female) you, using projection, expect men to be attracted to them as well.

We aren’t. We don’t fear them, we don’t hate them, we are not unable to “handle” them.

We just don’t care about them. At all.


128 posted on 11/02/2015 10:12:01 AM PST by Jim Noble (Diseases desperate grown Are by desperate appliance relieved Or not at al)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: kcvl

She thinks she’s special, and ANY man would die to be in her company.

I’m sorry sweety, you’re a dime a dozen.


129 posted on 11/02/2015 10:13:20 AM PST by skinndogNN
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 127 | View Replies]

To: Gamecock
That's not the author of this article, Andrea Wesley.

This is:


130 posted on 11/02/2015 10:17:23 AM PST by Bloody Sam Roberts (Democracy is not freedom. Democracy is simply majoritarianism. It is incompatible with real freedom.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 14 | View Replies]

To: Bloody Sam Roberts

One of those females.

Still trading on her looks, while trying to be “one of the guys”.

5 years and she will just have to worry about being an “alpha” to her horde of cats.

Most of these types dont realize that there are always women 10 years younger than her, and just as stupid.


131 posted on 11/02/2015 10:28:56 AM PST by VanDeKoik
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 130 | View Replies]

Comment #132 Removed by Moderator

Comment #133 Removed by Moderator

To: C19fan

The vocabulary of an alpha female: me, me, me, I, I, I, Mine, mine, mine, I, me, mine, I, myself, my, my, my, I, I, I, me.

Better to live in the desert alone than with such a woman.


134 posted on 11/02/2015 10:32:55 AM PST by lurk
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Liberty Valance

Bravo! Men who have no doubts about their own masculinity have no problems with a strong woman.


135 posted on 11/02/2015 10:33:01 AM PST by Mollypitcher1 (I have not yet begun to fight....John Paul Jones)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 25 | View Replies]

To: C19fan

Sounds like she’s been dating a bunch of losers. Maybe she has a secret desire to be a dominatrix.


136 posted on 11/02/2015 10:34:27 AM PST by smokingfrog ( sleep with one eye open (<o> ---)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Cowboy Bob

Nope. A woman can be strong willed and confident without being a lesbian. Problem is “Barbie Dolls”...all paint and plastic...have a lot of men convinced that they’re the norm.


137 posted on 11/02/2015 10:35:00 AM PST by Mollypitcher1 (I have not yet begun to fight....John Paul Jones)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 7 | View Replies]

To: NorthMountain

She said she valued passion over romance. Coupled with her General attitude and physical appearance she’s a dream come true for a guy looking for a one night stand.


138 posted on 11/02/2015 10:47:35 AM PST by cuban leaf (The US will not survive the obama presidency. The world may not either.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 84 | View Replies]

To: SeaHawkFan

Anyone think she is more of an alpha female than Sarah Palin and it appears to me that she lets and wants Todd to be the MAN in her life.
......................................................

Well said. Most strong women want a strong man. They have little patience with weaklings.


139 posted on 11/02/2015 10:49:11 AM PST by Mollypitcher1 (I have not yet begun to fight....John Paul Jones)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 50 | View Replies]

To: Netz

Yeah, but no one will pay attention to her blog if she just wrote about getting tipsy on wine while watching Sex in the City and stroking her, uh, cat...


140 posted on 11/02/2015 10:49:30 AM PST by smokingfrog ( sleep with one eye open (<o> ---)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 89 | View Replies]


Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first previous 1-20 ... 101-120121-140141-160 ... 241-257 next last

Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.

Free Republic
Browse · Search
General/Chat
Topics · Post Article

FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson