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The Dating Struggles Of Being An Alpha Female
The Bolde ^ | October 12, 2015 | Andrea Wesley

Posted on 11/02/2015 8:20:05 AM PST by C19fan

eing an alpha female is, for the most part, pretty awesome. I know this because I am one. We’re wildly independent, ferociously driven and we favor passion over tender romanticizing. We’re also incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men. This makes our dating lives more of a challenge to navigate. We’re not your typical submissive and doting partners, we’re a challenge. For this reason, finding a man who can handle and understand the traits we carry is much harder. These are the real struggles of being an alpha female in the dating world.

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TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: alphafemale; crazybroads; dating; goddess; hottie; pua; redpill; trp
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To: tanknetter

Autocorrect turned dagney into Carney.


81 posted on 11/02/2015 9:07:29 AM PST by cuban leaf (The US will not survive the obama presidency. The world may not either.)
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To: C19fan

Let’s do a Go Fund Me page for her,and buy her a Sybian.Her life will then be complete.


82 posted on 11/02/2015 9:07:34 AM PST by Farmer Dean (stop worrying about what they want to do to you,start thinking about what you want to do to them)
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To: Tzimisce

[[So you’re a complete bitch to everyone and now you’re trying to rationalize why you can’t find dates.]]

And her rationale is “The reason I can’t find anyone suitable is because It’s them, not me”


83 posted on 11/02/2015 9:08:14 AM PST by Bob434
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To: cuban leaf
Sounds like she’d be a good f**k buddy, but that’s about it.

So ... the only relationship she's capable of is one based on sin and depravity.

84 posted on 11/02/2015 9:08:47 AM PST by NorthMountain ("The time has come", the Walrus said, "to talk of many things")
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To: C19fan

About The Author

ANDREA WESLEY

Andrea is a 30 year old freelance writer living in the suburbs of Vancouver, Canada. By day, she's a kale eating, gym going office professional and by night she's a wine drinking, Netflix loving pizza eater. She also writes a personal blog about her humorous dating adventures and even though she hasn't found "the one" yet, she keeps entertained by her friends, family and crazy ginger tabby, Jagger.

85 posted on 11/02/2015 9:08:58 AM PST by Bratch
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To: C19fan

The issue isn’t her being an Alpha female - it is no different than the same issues displayed in an Alpha male -

She is a self-centered, selfish, tactless, insensitive to others, domineering, “my way or the highway” controlling person.

I have no problem with Alpha females, and really enjoy some I know.

The ones I can’t stand, I can’t stand for the same reason I can’t stand Alpha males who are exactly like them.

It has nothing to do with their sex. (Gender as they say today, redefining the original definition of the word - which I’ll not do.)


86 posted on 11/02/2015 9:10:04 AM PST by Arlis ( A "Sacred Cow" Tipping Christian)
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To: Bob434

Feminism is all about being a victim.

The world is not just a scary place, but it is actively trying to sabotage and undermine you.


87 posted on 11/02/2015 9:12:36 AM PST by Tzimisce
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To: C19fan
I would have thought alpha, males and females, would be those whom the opposite gender most highly value, not those who value themselves most highly. Those grades mean nothing in the kingdom of God where a different kind of gold is valued.
88 posted on 11/02/2015 9:13:05 AM PST by af_vet_1981 (The bus came by and I got on, That's when it all began.)
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To: jjotto

All that fierce independence and assertiveness, wow! So that’s why you spend weekends alone with a glass of wine and the cat watching reruns of “Sex in the City”?


89 posted on 11/02/2015 9:13:49 AM PST by Netz
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To: Bob434; CatherineofAragon; b9; onyx

Not by blood, but here on FR I have many sisters in spirit!


90 posted on 11/02/2015 9:14:37 AM PST by Finny (Voting "against" is a wish. Be ready to own what you vote for.)
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To: Netz

Next year, Andrea will blog about her conversion to Islam.


91 posted on 11/02/2015 9:15:44 AM PST by jjotto ("Ya could look it up!")
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To: Bob434

Jesus, so you know my ex-wife then?? Her to a T.


92 posted on 11/02/2015 9:17:07 AM PST by airplaneguy
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To: Lx

Really? All I hear about her is that she was fired. She even says that.


93 posted on 11/02/2015 9:18:19 AM PST by Jim from C-Town (The government is rarely benevolent, often malevolent and never benign!)
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To: C19fan
Ma'am, you aren't challenging, you're just unattractive.

Learn the difference.

94 posted on 11/02/2015 9:24:36 AM PST by Wyrd bið ful aræd (Exsurge, Domine, et judica causam tuam)
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To: C19fan

I don’t know what an alpha female is, but if you are whining about getting dates, you aren’t one.


95 posted on 11/02/2015 9:24:57 AM PST by Kirkwood (Zombie Hunter)
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To: JPX2011

JPX.... Your response is satire isn’t it? (I hope)


96 posted on 11/02/2015 9:25:02 AM PST by willibeaux (de ole Korean War vet age 85)
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... incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men


No man worth his salt finds arrogance an attractive quality in a friend or girlfriend. It has nothing to do with being intimidated - it has everything to do with being repulsed.

She's convinced herself that the problems she faces with men could not possibly originate from her personality.

Sad little girl who never heard the word ‘ no ‘ from her parents.

97 posted on 11/02/2015 9:26:01 AM PST by warsaw44
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To: C19fan

I suspect this one will go through life never having a stable relationship. She’ll think it’s because she’s an “alpha female and men just can’t handle it”.

But at the same time, she won’t want a man who she can walk all over. That will be beneath her. She wants a man who’s strong enough to challenge her...but if he does anything that doesn’t meet her perfect specifications, she’ll go off.

Relationships where one (or both) people have a “my way or else” attitude are doomed to fail. If she doesn’t change, she’ll wind up alone with a string of bad relationships blaming everyone else but the person really responsible - herself.


98 posted on 11/02/2015 9:27:07 AM PST by Personal Responsibility (Trump/Cruz 2016)
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To: C19fan
These type of delusional women are never happy because of hypergamy.

Because of out of control feminism, they do not think they have to negotiate or compromise in relationships because that would be "settling". But that is a part of being successful in all relationships in real life. Well, when this fool hits the wall at age 40 and becomes miserable cat lady - all the wine drinking and traveling and growing "number" will not make up for the emptiness.

99 posted on 11/02/2015 9:29:30 AM PST by KC_Conspirator
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To: jjotto

LOL. I think she may be quite high on the Crazy axis.


100 posted on 11/02/2015 9:30:11 AM PST by ModelBreaker (')
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