I’ve seen the same behavior.
He wears feminine dresses, long hair, makeup, nail polish, then goes around telling women they aren’t very feminine.
I had one of these men tell me he’s more of a woman than me because I didn’t wear much makeup, had short hair, wore jeans. I said I didn’t need to prove I was a woman, it was a fact. He asked what made me more of a woman than him, and I replied simply, “I gave birth twice, while you fathered a son.”
He then proceeded to become more catty than many women I’ve known, actually undermining and interfering with work until I was able to prove such.
And politically correct HR said that this man’s sexual harassment of me wasn’t sexual harassment but a dispute between two women, whereas any other man commenting on my clothing choices, makeup, menstrual cycle and parenting would have been nailed to the wall. It was only when a system outage extended because the SOB had restricted my system privileges and a different system admin came in and observed the problem was that my permissions were restricted to a lower level that they even punished him for work interference.
I agree with some of the TERFs - for a man to somehow become a woman by putting on a dress, and get higher privileges ahead of women by doing so, is insane. And it doesn’t help feminism when you have a minority that apes out its most extreme stereotypes while using such to define what women is.
It is almost as bad as feminine fashion being defined by homosexuals whose definition of beauty is looking like a prepubescent boy.
Amen. And yet many clueless women are backing up these guys and their agenda.