[Responsibility2nd]

Sounds like you need counseling.

You do agree with this, right?

[BJ1]

Do I agree with the the greatest gift a father can give his kids is to love his mother?

Do you believe women are better than men and should be put on a pedestal? She left him. She caused this man to stop living with his kids. She is likely, but not stated either way, that she has another man.

Is it proper for a divorced man to continue to love his ex-wife? I don’t think it’s proper at all. The man will be trapped for the rest of his life if he stays in love with her. He definitely can’t get a new wife if he still loves the ex.

And I have a real question I would like you to answer specifically. Does your advice work both ways? Should she show their children she still loves their father?

[WilliamCooper1]

Let me tell you Beta males what’s going on.

1. Ex told hubby it’s not you, it’s me line and split.

2. Hubby is still not over it and thinks that there’s still a shot he can get her back.

3. Hubby comes over and takes care of the kids while ex bangs her side piece she’s been seeing the entire time behind his back during the marriage.

Why is this so hard for you guys to figure out?

[fr_freak]

I disagree with it. The greatest gift a father can give his son is to teach him to be a man, and that includes having respect for himself AND having the qualities of a leader, especially within one's own family. If the mother is a good woman, she should be treated as such. If she is a faithless whore who ran off with another guy, she should receive nothing more than routine courtesy, and then only for the sake of the children, otherwise she should be treated like a faithless whore.

Somehow, the concept of chivalry got warped into the idea that men should be subservient to women, and that a "real man" bends over and takes it in the shorts in accordance with whatever whim fills a woman's head any given day. That concept is not only detrimental to society, but it is as unbiblical as one can get.