[pburgh01]

Great thread and discussion. I see lots of MGTOW brothers here. I can't say I am one. Getting and keeping attractive women is counter-intuitive as hell. Ok since we are making lists...

1. Women love men who have a life mission and pursue it. That could mean saving babies in the Belgian Congo, being a highly skilled and motivated owner of a plumbing company or starting an 8 figure tech compnany
2. Women love men who take the time and spend a little dough on their appearance. Meaning bathing, grooming, wearing cleaned and ironed clothes that are within 10 years of being in style.
3. Always keeping your word, even when it makes you look bad...AKA having INTEGRITY
4. Women love a good listener but no an over-agreeable wimp who parrots back her positons. My girl loves when I push back and challenge her assumptions. All in a respectful way of course.
5. Women want men that have other male friends and other interests
6. Women love a man who enjoys sex and looks to be open and have his needs met in the bedroom as WELL as hers.
7. Women loves witty and charming, not funny. Funny men are by definition clowns and after a while are treated as such. Don't be Seth Rogan. You'll be left with the deranged and damaged women
8. Women have to feel safe with their emotions and feelings with you and they won't get an eye-roll or a dismissive comment when they emote to you
9. Women want and need emotional intimacy and vulnerability with them. They love that you express your fears and insecurities with them. They value that. In my Divorce Care class 6 years ago, #1 thing why the Mrs walked ..."He was too shut off and would not trust me"
10. Women want their man to express to them how attractive you are to them. AKA they want to feel and be sexy for you.

[ozarkgirl]

Wow, and you’re a guy?? You actually DO understand women. Kudos

[terart]

yours is a GREAT LIST...so true!!

[metmom]

Great list.