[metmom]

As for being a good listener, it depends. Women do not want the listener who finds solutions to her problems. She does not like Mr Fix it, teachers and men in position of adversaries. They want someone to make them talk and act like he is not against her as a result.

True that.

Women often talk to vent. Don't try to fix it for them or condemn her for how she's feeling.

If in doubt, ask her if she wants you to help her fix it.

By just spending the time listening, it tells her you care about her, that she's important enough to you to spend time on without it having to lead to sex.

Because even for a woman who likes sex, no woman wants to feel like that's the only thing her husband cares to interact with her for. That leads to feeling used and I guarantee you, she doesn't want to feel like you're using her just to satisfy your sex drive and pretending like you're doing her a favor.

[central_va]

So women want to bitch in general and for us to just listen to it. Check.

[glock rocks]

Hon, while you’re venting, would you make me a sammich?