I agree with you about the mean spiritedness here. I felt like it started during the 2016 primary season when many people were kicked off for supporting and defending Cruz. I had a similar experience to this woman where I went to a bootcamp but went through the drills, realized that I was not ready for that, and got some personal training from the guy. She’s already lost 35 pounds people, which is quite an accomplishment. I think the personal trainer here is a jerk and she should go elsewhere to find someone who will help her.
And, that's what he told her to do.