Lake all young men who have just gotten married, then meet some of their wife’s friends and you say...
“OMG! I wish I had met her before I met my wife!”
Then twenty years later you meet them again and say...
“OMG! I’m glad I DIDN’T meet them before I met my wife!
But there is always that one, who you again meet thirty years later and she is still as stunning as she was years before. Then you notice her husband is working three jobs to keep her in that lifestyle and you say...
“OMG! I wish I could have met her before I met my wife, but I’m glad I DIDN’T!”
“Then you notice her husband is working three jobs to keep her in that lifestyle”
I know plenty like that.
There’s a story there somewhere;-)