[Sungirl]

If a man is married to a woman 20+ years, has 8 children with her, honors and cherishs her, how does that make her a trophy?

I was referring to those men who place emphasis on looks.....

[fqued]

you wrote, "I was referring to those men who place emphasis on looks.....

That includes 99% of (heterosexual) men, and the other 1% are lying. Wouldn't it be better to say: I was referring to those men who place emphasis on looks to the total neglect of anything else? That would only include about 25% of post-teenage males.

[archy]

I was referring to those men who place emphasis on looks.....

Most of those who've tried a nicely frosted cake know that the icing is not the best part...or there'd be no call for cakes, just bowls of icing and spoons.

But there are probably as many little kids who would gladly dig into a bowl filled with such a treat as there are guys who look only at the outside of a possible feminine analogue to their personality. When the gods are feeling particularly malevolent, they arrange for two with similar beliefs to meet.

-archy-/-