Ok I checked post 6420 which has the archived article on it and Ann became ill in 1995, received treatment at Sloan Kettering in August or September before Maya started graduate school and was dead by November 7th.
The subject of the conversation was Stanley Ann's appearance at the wedding on the day of October 3, 1992.
The photo portrays Stanley Ann as a sick woman. Her face is bloated and has a yellowish cast. Upon seeing the photo for the first time, I wondered if drs were prescribing serious lifesaving medications.
As far as we know, her appearance that day had nothing to do with subsequent illnesses, or events leading to her death three years later.