Her husband, in this case, let the little head do the thinking for the big head. The penis is not an organ--it's an appendage. By any measure of simple human decency, whether you think more with the head or the heart, this is vile.
Rant off (for now). This really has my blood boiling, and I'm trying my best to sublimate it into humor, but I have some questions for the esteemed gentleman from North Carolina that I may be posting here later.
If I were her, it's not how I'd want to spend my last few months.