A-friggin’-men, Brother. Been there, done that in spades.
Funny how much it is assumed that the man is the one who screwed up. Thanks, feminists.......
If you choose to have children with her YOU did screw up.
Well, in all fairness to women, the divorce problem was created in the seventies. (My Mom and Dad, along with several others I knew divorced at that time, so, first hand knowledge)
Husbands started leaving wives, because the pop psychology of the time said “don’t stay together just for the kids, it’s not good for the children.” There was also a big movement for people “to express and find themselves.”
The backlash from that has brought us to where we are now.