At this point, I’d be happy if she was cheating; at least then I would know it’s me. But for a mid-40’s woman to just lose all interest isn’t right. And not wanting to see a doctor about it, isn’t either.
Like I said, I’m just gonna pray about it, and before too long, I’m going to schedule the counselling session, with or without her.
it does happen sometimes, and a doctor isn’t always the answer - someone doesn’t want to want someone because of what comes out of a pill bottle
We're late 50's. We tend to have sex at least 4 to 5 times a week. Sometimes she isn't all that interested for herself, but she obliges me to keep me happy.
She understands that many days, I'm not really all that enthused about getting out of bed and going to work to make money for her to spend. I do it anyway to make her and the kids happy. Meanwhile, she does stuff to make me happy.
As I said earlier in this thread, if she's not making an effort to make you happy, then the real problem is that she doesn't love you. This is something that guys are often reluctant to face.