Posted on 11/16/2013 5:37:57 AM PST by ClaytonP
ROFLMAO!!!
You might just be on to something here!
The reason a lot of men have bitterness over the "bad boy" is because the "bad boy" is the guy who succeeds with women time after time after time by doing things and treating women in ways that polite society, conventional wisdom, our mothers, and other women in our lives specifically tell us we are NOT supposed to do. Basically, you have to be a complete and total d-bag, and the chicks come running, but this is not in most guys DNA anymore, we get confused and angry. It took me years to figure this out, and I still have trouble and guilt actually pulling it off even though it works, so the anger is understandable.
It pretty much illustrates what you're saying. (lol)
I used to understand the occasional use of the term “bad boy” when used to describe high school dating, but on this thread and on some others, it seems that to some, it merely is an expression of jealousy, revenge of the nerds stuff, there are some very angry posts on this thread, as though the scars of jealousy and envy run deep.
It occurred to me yesterday that Jack Nicholson, is an example of the “bad boy” personality with females.
man...with your warm personality maybe you are better off solo honey
life is too short to be so sharp pointed
im not even going to look but your hear me roarness has to be yankee
course you can claim to be anyone
fembot stridency is not a conservative value but by all means suit yourself
you can as you say...do as you please
You may need a metaphorical exorcism Clayton
Might I suggest the bars along lower McKinney on Friday nite...bring yer wallet...its a cornucopia of great Texican DNA
Bars? seriously?
You mean where the women spend their 20s hooking up with dozens of different men and then expect a guy to marry them in their 30s?
man ...some freepers are sour...I was talking about female enjoyment...not necessarily marriage
sorry...live your life as you like...I got variety outta my system before marrying in my 30s...
I did fine..see my homepage
neither of us were vestal virgins but I got no complaints
just seems to me the nice parts of Big D got some babes galore...good southern girls and some fairly hot latinas too
You claim you don’t generalize yet you have a hard on for men after your crappy ex husband dear.
You do practically all the bad manners you detest in us...men...your own self.
I got burned by an ex wife....a real harridan...I mean Joan Crawford stereotype...that wild scared horse eyes look
I got up...dusted myself off , gave her all the money..it was easier and she had primary residential custody which is of course the big hammer but I kept on looking and loving women till I found a better mate..still do..same one 20 years..a fine Charleston/Nashville gal who likes being a mom, wife and female without all that competitive distraction
and no short bobs and gray hair or mandals..lol
girls are frustrating God knows at times but they are still best thing going...men and wimmin are just truly distinctly different even to the point of stereotyping despite culture’s best efforts to eradicate what is natural
even you darling..you just need someone be good to you...but you gotta let em
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I’m late to this thread but all I can say is, last weekend my 4th child (out of 5), a daughter, came home from college and seemed quiet and sad. She told me the story of how her boyfriend of 4 months broke up with her because she wouldn’t have sex with him.
There are still decent girls and guys out there, it’s just difficult to match them up. I told my daughter to keep her standards high, how would she feel if she had slept with the jerk and he broke up with her because that’s obviously all he wanted. Chalk it up to an important lesson learned and move on.
Wow. Way to put relationships in terms of a business marketplace.
That’s a huge part of the problem right there.
“Your average courting-age woman spends more on clothes and makeup and hair salons and nail salons, etc., etc.let alone the time costs of putting it all togetherthan a man does in picking up a few checks.”
Costs born in this regard are costs that would have already be incurred REGARDLESS of courtship considerations.
My wife wouldn’t walk into Macy’s to return a dress without being showered, in makeup, and dressed in something other than sweats. She was that way before she knew me, and is that way today.
We are under NO illusion that the efforts a woman makes to look good is because of concern for her mate. Please.
If that were the case, there’d be a lot more women out there with long hair.
You are right, but most women don't get that. They really do think that the clothes and make-up will impress the men.
I tell ya, men today are SOOOO impressed by women sporting tattoos, dressed all in black like Albanian mafia widows, yapping incessantly on their smarttelephones..
It sounds like my life.
We had one of those kinds of antennas in the attic, and although he never re-did the transmission in the bathtub, I find my oven constantly being used to dry projects and set epoxy for the latest repair job.
You and mr. mm would get on great.
You must live in the PacNW.
My wife runs a department full of women, and SHE complains of the crazy.
She keeps hoping they’ll hire a male math teacher just to cut through the estrogen.
A little help with the housework can go SOOOOO far.
It's not a matter of her not being able to do it but it's an acknowledgement of the effort she puts into running the house. A husband who comes home at night, eats dinner, watches TV or gets on the computer, and then crashes and spends no time with his wife is telling her by his actions that she is unimportant to him.
And when he expects a warm welcome in bed just because he wants sex and is acting like he's doing her a big favor by offering it to her, he ain't going to get it. Women whose husbands are not interested in them except for sex are sending their wives the signal that they are just using them and no woman wants to feel like she's being used, even by and especially by, her own husband.
AFAIC, keep the flowers, the candy, the dinners, and just spend time with me. Without the investment in time together, I see all that other stuff as just buying my favor or appeasing me.
Kids never entered into the discussion because kids don’t seem to be a priority to women anymore.
Nothing is more anti-kid right now that the USA. There is ZERO premium right now on preserving the family.
Indeed, even this new Obamacare crap makes it CHEAPER TO LIVE AS A DIVORCED COUPLE than remain a family.
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