Although I disagree with Tom Leykis on many of his opinions he basically says it’s time for men to get take their testicles back and be the man.
Leykis 101 rules of dating
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Leykis%20101
http://blowmeuptom.com/leykis101/
Those are good tips, but after a certain age, eliminating single mothers and co-workers doesn’t leave you with much. Plus, chicks NEVER stand around in clubs/bars without girlfriends around them so that is ridiculous. Otherwise he is spot on pretty much.