Posted on 07/02/2018 4:01:50 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks
What I hate is when the 8s and 9s smile at me because I know one wrong move and there’s a big old lawsuit coming my way.
#metoo.
What the heck is an incel?
I am unfortunately celibate also....
Read on.
I’ve seen plenty of men who were downright homely, married to very attractive women. Now, if I were cynical, I would say they married for money, and maybe some of them did. But as a woman, I can tell you that we find men with a great sense of humor, or highly intelligent, or an obviously kind soul, to be very attractive, no matter what their looks are. Of course we’re attracted to successful men, but I don’t mean necessarily FINANCIALLY successful. A guy who’s successful at having a great personality, or a great thinker, etc., is an attractive kind of guy. A very wise senior girl in high school once told me, “My boyfriend is as homely as a mud fence, but I couldn’t care less; he’s a great guy, and that’s what counts.”
I’ve been around since the old days, and I’ve never thought of “confirmed bachelor” or “spinster”, as code words for homosexuals. For example, I recall, both C.S. Lewis and his brother, were confirmed bachelors, until Lewis married his wife, whom he initially married so she could remain in England, but fell in love with her after they married. I read his autobiography, and he touched on homosexual behavior in boarding school, but affirmed he never indulged in it, or felt any interest in it, himself. I don’t think he was lying. Some people really are sort of asexual, or some are too socially awkward to get involved with anyone.
Gosh, that’s jaded. I guess you just have to give up, then?
Believe me, I’ve done some asks recently, but no takers so far.
Don’t give up! Find out what your best quality is, and show it. Women are also attracted to self-confident men.
P.S. In my experience, the only difference between American Conservative women and American Liberal women is their politics....
If my wife weren't who she is, I'd have nothing to do with any of them.
Good for you! It’s what’s inside that counts.
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