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Why I Still Breastfeed My Eight-Year-Old Girl (Sicko Alert)
News & Star (U.K.) ^
| 2/5/06
| Phil Coleman
Posted on 02/05/2006 8:58:44 AM PST by Millee
A PENRITH mum has appeared on national TV to explain why she is still breastfeeding her daughter who is nearly eight and why she gave her older daughter breast milk as a ninth birthday present.
Veronika Robinson appeared on the Channel 4 programme Extraordinary Breastfeeding as a passionate advocate of allowing children to decided when they give up breast milk.
Mrs Robinson, a former journalist, her husband Paul, and their children, Bethany and Elizah, are all fans of organic food.
Elizah is approaching her eighth birthday and is not happy at the prospect of giving up her daily feed. I dont want to be weaned. I want to breastfeed for ever, she said.
In the Channel 4 programme, broadcast on Wednesday, Mrs Robinson, 38, spoke frankly about her decision to defy convention.
She was one of several families interviewed after the World Health Organisation recommended that children should be breastfed until they are aged two. All share the belief that children should never be forcibly weaned.
While many people in the UK consider her decision odd, other cultures do not take such a dim view of prolonged breast feeding.
In an interview before the TV programme, 38-year-old Veronika described her reaction when Bethany asked for breast milk for her ninth birthday. I was delighted, if a little taken aback,' she said.
I'd stopped breastfeeding Bethany when she was five though I was continuing to feed her younger sister, Elizah but obviously she clearly remembered what a wonderful feeling it had been. It was the best thing she could imagine and, presented like that, it seemed like a great idea.
Veronika, who edits an alternative-parenting magazine called The Mother continued: My girls were brought up to think it was completely normal to ask for a breast in a shop, she says. Thats bad enough when they are toddlers, but when they are big girls, people get freaked out by it.
I try to be discreet, but we have had some odd looks. People tend to be disgusted and disbelieving.
I cant believe any mother wouldnt love to hold onto that wonderful feeling you get when you are nursing your own child.
Despite the Breast Is Best campaign, designed to highlight the benefits of breastfeeding to new born babies, only 68 per cent of mums routinely breastfeed. Of those around 80 per cent give up after just six months.
TOPICS: Weird Stuff
KEYWORDS: breast; breastcancer; breastfeeding; child; children; milk; mother; mothersmilk; psychotherapy; thanks4themammaries
but we have had some odd looks. People tend to be disgusted and disbelieving.,/i>Add Millee to the "People" camp.
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posted on
02/05/2006 8:58:46 AM PST
by
Millee
To: Millee
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:00:05 AM PST
by
maggief
(and the dessert cart rolls on ...)
To: Millee
Bill Clinton was the ninth puppy
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:00:20 AM PST
by
al baby
(Father of the Beeber)
To: Millee
She's been producing milk all these years? The human body certainly is a strange and wonderful thing, although I'd say this woman mostly is strange.
To: Millee

Advocate: Veronika Robinson, from Glassonby, near Penrith, appears in Channel 4s Extraordinary Breastfeeding
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:02:05 AM PST
by
maggief
(and the dessert cart rolls on ...)
To: Millee
This makes my breasts hurt just thinking about it.
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:03:15 AM PST
by
lawgirl
(She's more fun than Colorado and more far out than Maine.....)
To: Millee
LOL, as radical as I am about breastfeeding, even this is over the line in my book.
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:12:08 AM PST
by
muggs
To: Millee
There are mounds of opportunities to slake the thirst for humor with this article but in the interest of good taste and to avoid being labeled a boob I will refrain.
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:14:15 AM PST
by
cowboyway
(My heroes have always been cowboys.)
To: Millee
While many people in the UK consider her decision odd, other cultures do not take such a dim view of prolonged breast feeding. Other cultures don't take a dim view of female genital mutilation, either.
To: Millee
I like.... oh, never mind. I best not go there..... ;)
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:15:08 AM PST
by
dfwddr
(Join our Folding@Home team (Team# 36120) keyword:folding.)
To: cowboyway
Good decision. You breast be on your way. :o)
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:16:19 AM PST
by
Millee
(I've got FRiends in low places..)
To: Millee
I cant believe any mother wouldnt love to hold onto that wonderful feeling you get when you are nursing your own child.Here's the reason, a self centered one to be sure. I wonder if she will still get the "wonderful feeling" at lunch time when her daughter is in high school? It will of course be wonderful for her but wonderful for her daughter? I think not.
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:16:29 AM PST
by
jwalsh07
To: Millee
I suppose it could be worse, it could be a eight year old son.
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:18:48 AM PST
by
csvset
To: Millee
Breast milk is definitely best for babies, up to a point. Unfortunately, in being rich in the nutrients that a newborn needs, it does not contain the nutrients toddlers and older need.
Children who continue to breastfeed after 18 months become what pediatricians call "milk babies." They usually have very poor bone structure and are at risk for impaired mental development and poor infection resistance.
They are usually identified during an ER visit for inability to throw off a cold or flu that other children are getting over in 4-6 weeks.
Remember, breast feeding after 18 months is not about the child. It's all about Mommy feeling "fulfilled."
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:18:48 AM PST
by
MindBender26
(Having my own CAR-15 in RVN meant never having to say I was sorry....)
To: jwalsh07
It's just as wonderful to watch your child grow and develop too. The 8-year-old doesn't need the breastmilk, "mommy" needs the wonderful feeling.
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:19:11 AM PST
by
Millee
(I've got FRiends in low places..)
To: jwalsh07
At least she didn't have sons who might still be demanding to breastfeed well into their teen years. Yikes.
To: Millee
YUCK, I breastfed both my boys for a bit, but I think a mom should stop by one for sure. Breastmilk is not needed for children who can eat and drink just fine. Breastmilk is for babies!!!!!!!!
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:22:00 AM PST
by
Halls
(Dallas County, Texas, but my heart is in East Texas!)
To: Millee
Roger that. I'll teater out of here.
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:23:49 AM PST
by
cowboyway
(My heroes have always been cowboys.)
To: Halls
My wife is just now coming to the decision for our 11 month old son. She is going to have a hard time giving it up. He is nursing less and less. He's pretty much telling her his nursing days are over. It will still sadden her.
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:25:21 AM PST
by
raybbr
(ANWR is a barren, frozen wasteland - like the mind of a democrat!)
To: cowboyway
It's been titalating. Thanks for the mammaries.
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:26:16 AM PST
by
Millee
(I've got FRiends in low places..)
To: cowboyway
Not so fast there, cowboy....
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:26:29 AM PST
by
digger48
To: Millee
I have no kids, but my sister breast fed and it was quite difficult coupled with the fact that she had to work. I did see her squeeze some out into a baggy. YUCK!
To: Millee
When the kids get tired of it,is she looking for volunteers.
Should`nt have said that,sorry all.
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:40:06 AM PST
by
carlr
To: Millee
Ironically enough, her daughter's favorite band is Ween.
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:46:21 AM PST
by
Cyclopean Squid
(Moderates do not make history)
To: raybbr
It is hard, but when children turn one it is about the time they want real food and regular milk. It will be tough but I understand. I've been there!
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:47:38 AM PST
by
Halls
(Dallas County, Texas, but my heart is in East Texas!)
To: Millee
Holy wet nurse, Batman, surely she can find some socially acceptable alternatives to continue to "capture that feeling."
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posted on
02/05/2006 9:55:32 AM PST
by
NonValueAdded
("If I were a Cuban, I'd certainly be on a raft," Isane Aparicio Busto)
To: Halls
The problem is compounded by the fact that she had such a hard time breastfeeding our oldest son. The little one is eating finger food and we're giving him bits of chicken and hot dogs. Makes for a great change in poopies.:)
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posted on
02/05/2006 10:12:35 AM PST
by
raybbr
(ANWR is a barren, frozen wasteland - like the mind of a democrat!)
To: MindBender26
oh,, good grief. my children were breast-fed beyond 18 months, and they are all sturdy-boned, bright, and disease-resistant - I can count on two hands the occasions I had to take them to the doctor for an illness (there are four of them.)
Mrs VS
To: Halls
It is hard, but when children turn one it is about the time they want real food and regular milk. It will be tough but I understand. I've been there!Haven't we all.
Just joshing, there comes a time when Mom's milk comes in second to apple sauce.:-}
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posted on
02/05/2006 11:47:33 AM PST
by
jwalsh07
To: MindBender26
They are usually identified during an ER visit for inability to throw off a cold or flu that other children are getting over in 4-6 weeks.Taking 4-6 weeks for a kid to get over a cold/flu doesn't sound healthy to me.
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posted on
02/05/2006 1:15:57 PM PST
by
muggs
To: Millee
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posted on
02/05/2006 2:00:02 PM PST
by
Coleus
(IMHO, The IVF procedure is immoral & kills many embryos/children and should be outlawed)
To: muggs
>Taking 4-6 weeks for a kid to get over a cold/flu doesn't sound healthy to me.
Exactly. That's the typical point when these "Mothers of America" decide that something is (perhaps seriously) wrong with the kid and they seek medical attention.
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posted on
02/05/2006 6:57:04 PM PST
by
MindBender26
(Having my own CAR-15 in RVN meant never having to say I was sorry....)
To: VeritatisSplendor
But did you supplement with "toddler" food, vitamins, etc?
Problem with the "milk babies" is that the mother buys into the feminist krep that all they need is Mom's Milk, so the child fills up on breast milk and gets little else.
It is also not an easy problem to solve once the child has existed primarily on liquids for 3, 4, 5+ years. Since the GI system has little or no "experience" digesting solids, it if very difficult to get them onto solid food at an advanced. It can be a 12 - 18 month weaning process.
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posted on
02/05/2006 7:02:29 PM PST
by
MindBender26
(Having my own CAR-15 in RVN meant never having to say I was sorry....)
To: MindBender26
you meant just milk and nothing else? It would be hard for a mother to supply enough calories for a toddler, let alone whatever else the child needs. Mine were nursing and eating.
Mrs VS
To: VeritatisSplendor
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posted on
02/05/2006 7:10:31 PM PST
by
MindBender26
(Having my own CAR-15 in RVN meant never having to say I was sorry....)
To: Millee
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posted on
02/05/2006 7:15:24 PM PST
by
spunkets
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